If you were interested in someone and you thought they were several years younger than you, then you learned they're actually a few years older than you, would it make a difference? I'm kind of in this situation. The guy I like is 3 years younger than me. I look almost 10 years younger than I am, especially with my hair up, no makeup on, and wearing the uniform he always saw me in. (He was a customer at a place I worked recently.) I know his last ex was a lot younger than him, and he seemed interested in two other girls I worked with that were barely out of their teens. He got my number after I left, called me once, left a message and hasn't called again. Think maybe he found out my age and that could be why he lost interest?
2006-12-09 11:46:15 · 3 answers · asked by tessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forgot something--- He called once, I got his voicemail, and I did call him back. I'm just trying to figure out why he stopped communicating with me. The age thing is just a theory that I hope isn't true.
2006-12-09 11:53:53 · update #1
Be proud of your age... especially if you're in shape.
If he lost interest in you because of your age (without getting to know you as a person) he's not worth it anyways.
2006-12-09 11:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by aljo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't call him back, then why should he call you again? It's up to you to take the next step. Anyway, 3 years difference is not much so should not be a problem for most guys. If it is a problem for this guy, then I'd say forget him because like you said he seems interested in young girls in general.
2006-12-09 19:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Julian A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he just isnt as into u as u thought he was
2006-12-09 19:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋