What do I say to ask out a high school girl?

Question

I am a freshman and I really like this girl. She is in a few of my classes and sometimes we walk together. We have eachothers phone numbers and talk like 4 times a week. I have known her for 4 yrs but never really noticed her until now. I really like her but I don't know what to say when I ask her out. Please don't say just ask her. Thanks

When we talk on the phone, sometimes it is just about homework. Other times we just talk. We both call eachother.

We have met up at multiple football games and a Christmas parade. We also hang out a lot during lunch and after our cross country practices. This is also the first year i have ever really talked to her, I didn't really know her in middle school. Also, should I ask her to go to a local college basketball game with some of her and my friends. And should I do it over the phone or face to face @ school?

Answer 1

Find out if she likes you. You could like ask her friends or something. well obviuosly she likes you if you call each other 4 times a week. well do you call her or does she call you? how long do you talk for? need more info.

Answer 2

Some friends and I are going to (the movies, bowling, fishing, the beach, wherever) Saturday. I was wondering if you'd like to go?

If you never ask, she can't say YES.

I've dated alot. The best answers are the simplest. Women are complicated enough without men making it MORE complicated.

Oh yeah, and be honest. You can temper your honesty by saying things the right way (it's not what you say, but how you say it). She either likes you or she doesn't. If she does, she'll say yes (her PARENTS may say no, but that's a different question).

Remember, if she says yes it will change your friendship/relationship forever!! So think about it. Do you like her that way? Or mostly as a friend.

Answer 3

You should try and make sure she likes you by talking to her friends. Then maybe try and mention that you want to hangout with her. See how she reacts. If its a good reaction ask her to a movie with just you and her. If its not a good reaction just hang with her and some friends and see if you can get her to like you as more than a friend.

Answer 4

Invite her to hang out with you outside of school. Like ask her if her friends want to meet up with your friends at a basketball game or something. If you start hanging out with her outside of school you will see what direction it is going, making it easier to ask her out.

Answer 5

First ask her to be your date to a dance or something. Or ask her to a movie with some other friends. Then, if that goes smoothly, say, "I really like you a lot. Will you go out with me?"

Answer 6

u don't me to say it but just ask her. seriously. tell her that u really like her as a friend but feel like their could be something more between the 2 of u and ask her if she'd like to go out on a date

Answer 7

Man if you like her you know her likes and dislikes step it up say hey wanna go do this or this come on dont get stuck in the friend zone

Answer 8

Ask her first if she likes the movies. Then ask her if she likes whatever movie u want to see. If she says yes then say do u want to go then.If she says no then say well what movie would u like to see.When she tells u then say would u like to go .Good luck hon

Answer 9

if you know what kind of movies she likes you could say something like "hey this movie is coming out i thought you might like, we should go see it!" or if she likes a certain type of food you could say "there's this great restuarant downtown (or wherever) i think you'd like... wanna come with me on friday?" just ask her about something she'd be interested in. i love when guys are thoughtful enough to find out what i'm interested in.

Answer 10

Well maybe you should just ask her would you like to go somewhere with me sometime soon, and if she says yes, then you say its a date!!!