i have a crush on a guy friend, so i cant very well go up and flirt and be all nice to him, or he'll think it's weird.
so i try to act as natural as possible, but every time i do something, i think "wait a minute, was that too desperate? should i have done that?" and it's really annoying, because i can't really immerse myself in our conversations.
how to get rid of these thoughts!?
2006-12-09 11:23:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit worrying about the "what if's, and "should have's , just be yourself, and see what happens
2006-12-09 11:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha.. yeah. Just act the way you want. Your self conscious and second guessing your actions. Just ignore them. As Goerge Costanza from Seinfeld did, just do the opposite of whatever you usually do and think, he got all the girls after that.
2006-12-09 19:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
RELAX! if ur all nervous and stuff it can show and ur crush will definetly think ur wierd! just chill out and flirt but dont be obious or he'll think u like him. check out this site www.xanga.com/boy_talk_101 if u have more questions about guys
2006-12-09 19:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by my baby. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o mann, i know what you mean, like this guy im liking right now is 2 years older than me. just try not to think about the thoughts, but instead, concentrate on making eye contact. by getting his slight attention. its what im trying to do... for the past few weeeeks.
2006-12-09 19:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be you.. stop thinking about if you are doing something that makes you look deperate or not. Do the things that you would do normaly and you will be just fine.
2006-12-09 19:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella Moore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're looking into this too much.
You DO need to flirt with him, just start a little. When you're walking with him, gently bump your hip sideways into his. Just something little.
And just go from there. :)
2006-12-09 19:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You worry too much, just relax and see where it goes..IF you act like that all the time he will not know what to do.......
2006-12-09 19:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop thinking so much and sart doing
2006-12-09 19:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be urself...dont worry about being too forward, u have to let him know how u feel because life is way too short...
2006-12-09 19:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by .good girl gone bad. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋