ok this is mostly a questiond for women 18-26 but i'm open to hear any opinions people have on this. i'm fine when it comes to meeting women in places like clubs and bars and stuff, but i feel wierd approaching a women somewhere like a store or mall or smoehting. whats the best way to approach a girl in a place like that. see in clubs i know women are theire to dance, drink, socialize, have fun, meet guys etc. so i'm just doind what there there for. but if their shopping i feel liek they don't wanna be bothered by "some guy" hitting on them. any suggestions on what to do or say?
2006-12-09 11:12:33 · 16 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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i'm not making it a hunting ground but the other day i seen a beautiful women in the store and i had no clue what to do which is wierd for me. i'm used to being in a relationship so being single is differen't i haven't been single in like 5 years. usually after i brokoe up one of my female friends would swoop in on me or soemone form my old job (like this 40 something year old who set me up with her daughter) cause those people knew i was sweet and nice and good looking. now i don't have that job anymore. and i really don't have many female friends anymore so i'm "hunting" at the clubs. i just don't like being single and i wanna find a GF. it doens't make me a bad perosn but if i'm shopping and see this beautiful women whats wrong with that.
2006-12-09 11:25:55 · update #1
One time I was at a delicatessen for lunch and this guy I didn't know who was behind me in line smiled and I smiled back. He said hi and then I said hi and then we started talking a little bit. Then he asked if he could join me at my table for lunch and I said sure. He was so laid back and our conversation was great and we were getting along really well. We even exchanged phone numbers.
My best advice would be when you approach a woman, don't be too pushy and don't use any of those cheesy pick up lines! Just be yourself, smile, talk, and flirt a little ;)
2006-12-09 11:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually inappropriate to make a practice of this. Yes, if you reach for the same magazine on a shelf at Target, and hit it off with some hottie, that's natural. But to actually make these places your 'hunting ground' is not cool. Stick to the clubs, or use an online dating service. Atleast you wont be perceived as a pest.
2006-12-09 11:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite alright to go up to a woman in a place other than a bar. I never took anything seriously a guy in a bar said anyway. Most of the time the woman would be flattered that you noticed her. As far as what to say...well that depends on you and the situation. If she doesn't want to be messed with it will be obvious in her expression. If you smile and she smiles back...take the second step and say hello, if she doesn't want to talk...then she will probably let you know.
2006-12-09 11:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by angela k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18. To approach a woman in her natural setting, you need to be calm and comfortable. The best way is to make a joke. Say something funny. It's easiest if something happens first. LIke they drop something and you pick it up or your baskets bump. Anything that will give you an excuse to talk to her.
2006-12-09 11:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, some women don't mind being approach like that but for more quiet women, they would probably be better off if you didn't wait straight up to her. Try simple moves like accidently knocking into her or making small comments if she did something that you though was funny or something..
Or even just smile at her if she looks. It's all about your outer apparence for first impressions so don't dress up like a playboy..
2006-12-09 11:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u noticed there looking at something why don't u give them a suggestion about what there buying. or pretend they pick a orange maybe u should go next and pick one up and say like boy they always have rip and delious fruit. here start a small conversation maybe then she'll reply. just stuff like that.
2006-12-09 11:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by ig0tquestions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see a lady you really like you have to approach her. If you don´t someone else will. You have to be youself and be original. It does not matter what you say, just say sth. If you are not George Clooney do not say myplace or yourplace... That is a bit too direct.
2006-12-09 11:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by pikapoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cautiously.
2006-12-09 11:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 u do anything.. u should get some grammer help...
ur question shoiuld read , " how to approach a WOMAN".. not a women
2006-12-09 11:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to them and compliment them on how they look but dont say"nice bottom"
2006-12-09 11:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by crawls0hard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋