Hey. I have had bad experiences with girls(been heartbroken b4 anything started) and since the last one i have not felt anything for one girl and thats nearly a year ago(im 16 now). I still find girls attractive like i used to but theres not one worth "the chase". I have been thinking that its maybe due to me not getting on with a lot of girls in my year at school coz i dont like their personality. I go out with my m8s to club at weekends looking for girls but with not much success as i am very picky. However, there are some girls in the years below at my school who i have noticed trough myspace, is that a sad option to meet people though?what would my chances be?what do you suggest? thanks
2006-12-09 11:04:43 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should drop the pickiness, that why you haven't got none, because you so picky. They will be a right girl. And if you drop the pickiness and give a girl a chance she may turn out to be your soul mate, you can't judge a book by its cover. And if you drop the pickiness and still don't like girls personality's your most likely to be gay, like my brother.
2006-12-09 11:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pecabo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to stop being so picky. Looks dont always matter its whats on the inside. The ugliest girl could have the best personality in your eyes if you actually take the time to notice. But im not saying go find a ugly person and try and get with them lol just take the time to get to know some girls no matter what they look like on the outside. But about the myspace deal my sister is always on damn myspace or yahoo or aim meeting new people and they all seem to just screw her over either cheating wise over the net or in actually person or just use her for a one night stand but considering that your still young it might not be as bad about them kind of things yet hopefully. Just try it out and see how it goes but ill tell you now being in person is way better on a relationship considering online dating you really have no clue what the other person is actually doing they can be telling you one thing but doing another if you get my drift. But your the only one that can make the choice.
2006-12-09 19:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Myspace isn't necessarily a "sad" way to meet girls, but the problem w/ it is that you don't really know how they are...you can make yourself into whatever you want when you write your profile...if you find a girl you might be interested in meet up w/ her in person to find out what she's really like...as for you being picky, that's not always a bad thing! You are careful about who you open yourself up to...don't worry, eventually you'll find one worth your time! Good luck!
2006-12-09 19:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem too. Turns out what I liked did not come into clubs.
This would call for a change in habits I think. Instead of clubs, try going to ball games or coffeehouses. Maybe just hanging around the school if you are into the smart kind.
The point is if you are not finding what you like where you are, try someplace else.
2006-12-09 19:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER ask a girl out for their aperance or popularity! just wait and, trust me, you will find the right person eventually. it might be in the least place expected, but it'll happen. u just need to open up a bit, and look for someone who has similar intrests, and a nice personality. if your uncomfortable talking to girls, it means none of them are good for you. turst me youll find that special someone someday!!!
2006-12-09 19:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they're saying your picky maybe you need to lower your standards no one will be perfect. and you have to wait til that one person comes along.. you will know and you will be happy you waited and kept looking for her rather than wasting your time with people who will just lessen your drive to continue looking... im telling you shes got to be out there somewhere!
2006-12-09 19:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a few successful couples who met on myspace. Also, cheer up, you sound like you just get sentenced to die.
2006-12-09 19:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready for another realtionship. "Play the field" for awhile. Enjoy the company of girls but don't get involved (emotionally OR sexually) eventually one will come along that will strike your fancy but you're young you shouldn't tie yourself to one girl (and visa versa) you should enjoy your youth.
2006-12-09 19:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one's heart has been broken sometimes it takes a while to heal...I think it's braver to stick it out than to be running around just for the hell of it.
2006-12-09 19:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think meeting people throught the internet isnt that bad.. but i think you should try to get to know the younger girls, talk to them... but it depends on how much younger! your chances would be high. girls like the older ones
2006-12-09 19:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by jocealina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋