SHOULD I GET BACK AT MY FRIEND BUT NOW NOT FRIEND, AND NEVER WILL BE... AND TELL MY GF ABOUT BECAUSE HE FLERTS WITH HER AND SHE DUMPED ME, THERE NOT TOGETHER YET BUT I WANT TO AVENGE MY HEART. AND GET REVENGE ON HIM.. SHOULD I TELL MY GF, DO WITHOUT TELLING HER, OR NOT DO IT.
2006-12-09 11:01:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Success is the best revenge... get your emotions together, meet yourself a nice young lady, enjoy life with her, and your happiness will be more then enough revenge.
If you dwell on what to do, it would be clear to the both of them that you have nothing better to do.
A saying my brother once told me..
"It is better to be thought of as a fool, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt."
...Makes perfect sense to me
Good Luck
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-09 11:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very angry and upset. You should not do anything when you are angry as when you do, you usually regret doing things. Revenge is not a good thing. I am sure she didn't break up with you because he flirted with her. There are other reasons, I am certain. Do not take it out on your friend. Anger is not a good thing to hold against someone. The quicker you forgive, the quicker your heart will heal and you will be able to go on and live your life and be able to find someone else who you are compatible with.
She dumped you, remember that. It doesn't mean they will get together, even if they do, it is their decision and their life. If you have things that you need to say to her that was left unsaid, then say them for your sake, but do not do it in anger.
People do break up and then find others. There will be someone else out there for you, but you have to let the anger go. That will not get you anywhere!
I will pray for peace in your heart. Hugs to you for your pain and sorrow. Let your sorrow out and then move on to the next phase in your life. It may be much more rewarding than you can imagine if you just let the past go and move to the future.
2006-12-09 11:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its problematic, and i consider for you, If all people Tells You not to combat, it's going to Make you want To extra. When The Time Comes and also you Do See Him, you're going to understand Whats first-rate To Do in the trouble, however consider, it is Her alternative, If He Treats Her dangerous again Its Her crisis, no longer Yours, Dont Be Fooled although for the reason that She would Come back To You, except It suits Her.
2016-08-10 00:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by ducret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, your in a tough situation, the best thing to do is try a forget about this issue and move on becuase when were in situations like this we tend to do things we regret or are too extreme. its best you not do it. He wasnt your friend anyway because he is trying to get your ex, friends dont do that, tell him your feelings and what hes doing wrong, if he continues then hes an asshole, get over this issue and get some real friends,
2006-12-09 11:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matt, I take it you're pretty young. Foget her, you have plenty of time to get serious with someone. As far as your friend is concerned, if he flirts with her and she flirts with him, maybe he'll get the same thing you did...DUMPED.
If they get along OK, wish them well. Remember this about revenge; Revenge will leave a sour taste in your mouth.
2006-12-09 11:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Be the better person and let it be. There is a better woman out there waiting for you. Don't go to their level by getting revenge. I know it's hard and you are hurt but be the better one and let it go they will end up feeling bad. What goes around comes around.
2006-12-09 11:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her go and move on! Revenge is not a good thing! If you move on things will be a lot eaiser! Everything happens for a reason!
2006-12-09 11:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by bigbassgurl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave them be. people don't need revenge. they say the best revenge is living well. move on find a good GF and don't worry about them
2006-12-09 11:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shoudn't do it, if you do she'll just start to hate you, but if you just let here go, you'll build a bond. There many girls out there, and right you probably think that she's the only one for you. But when you meet someone you'll forget about her, but still have memories.
2006-12-09 11:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pecabo G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to act like a spoiled, immature, self centered brat go ahead. Or you can act like a mature person and just move on. And remember depending on YOUR choice is how people are going to think of you. So would you rather be thought of as a spoiled, immature, self centered brat or mature man secure in his own self?
2006-12-09 11:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋