i got a gf and we ben dateing for about 3 weeks now and she always goes on about sex and she told me that she wanted to do it or break up im 14 by the way lol i told her i dont want to and this week im going over hers she always goes on about this and i dont want to have sex HAHA how can i like tell her and that
2006-12-09 10:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a very simple question to answer, so let me just take a minute to give you a life lesson:
*If ever you aren't sure about something, whether or not it will be of benifit to you - Do not do it. Not until you are sure.*
In my opinion, 14 is WAY to young to be thinking about sex, so it's no wonder you don't want to do it. Next, 3 weeks is no where near the amont of time it takes to know someone/ introduce a sexual relationship. Furthermore, if she keeps going on and on about it, maybe this should say something about her history........ either that, or she's seriously lacking maturity.
You shouldn't feel bad about respecting your own wishes. Tell her straight up that you aren't interested in a sexual relationship right now, and why. Sex means more than she is making it out to be worth.
If she is placing sex as a requirement for your relationship, let her go her own way, you'll be better off and STD free.
2006-12-09 10:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! 14, sounds like your girlfriend might have a little problem, so I'd be careful. 14 is a little too young to be having sex, and if you think your not ready, then you definitely are not! Sex is not something to rush into. I know everyone talks about it and its such a big issue, but its a very big responsibility, and it might not turn out like you planned. Sex is not something to take lightly and your girlfriend definitely is. If she really cares about you; one: she wouldn't give you an ultimatum like that, and two: if she really cares about you she would not make you rush into something your not ready for. Take your time you're still young.
2006-12-09 18:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by ladysassafras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r the 1 wit da penis right so jus tell, her u don't want 2 get is out u must also tell her that u r too young even if she forces u, u must say No. why I'm i saying this, after sleeping wit da girl u cud be accused of rape (even if u r 14) bcoz it is believed dat boys r capable of doing it at yr age n 2 by da looks of things u don't want 2 be father at dat age do u so threaten her. tell her dat if she doesn't stop mumbling about sex U'll dump her.
2006-12-09 18:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST AND IF SHE KEEPS PRESSUREING YOU THEN SHE IS NOT WORTH IT. THINK OF IT THIS WAY DO YOU REALLY WANT TO PLAY MOMMY AND DADDY AT AGE 14. YOU HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. I LOST MY V CARD WHEN I WAS 15 AND I HONESTLY WISH I WOULD HAVE WAITED. YOU SHOULD DO WHAT YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART IS RIGHT. BE TRUE AND HONEST TO YOURSELF. AND LIKE I SAID IF SHE IS NOT COOL WITH IT. THEN SHE IS A LOSER. SAVE YOUR SELF FOR THE RIGHT GIRL. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-09 18:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that your just not ready for it.and that she should respect you for not wanting to. and when ur 14 she shouldnt even be thinking about sex. so if she really likes you she will respect your desisions.anyway i hope that helped.good luck!! :)and if shes still pushing you for it, you should find somebody else that repects your choices that u make.
2006-12-09 18:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her i like u alot but im not ready to have sex yet
2006-12-09 18:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋