Met a girl who trained me at an old job of mine. Ever since, we'd have deep convos where she'd usually call me, and confide in me about a lot for hours on end. She also would laugh at things I didn't mean to be funny, and was apologetic alot when she didn't need to be. She would also call me up during a holiday and also spent 5 hours on the phone with me the other night, apologizing saying how she had been busy because of her job.
She does have a boyfriend though, that's why I'm not pushing it. They been together for 4 years, but she'll tell me that it's not the greatest, and when she goes over there she makes it sound like its a night job rather than spending time with him. She also says to me that she's faithful.
BTW, she's calling it quits on him and she's telling me she's endit it-- I have invited her to my work's holiday party and she said she definitely wanted to go but may be busy and she never got back to tell me? What next?
2006-12-09 10:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your dumped hun
2006-12-09 10:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alicat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does 'may be busy' mean? Does that mean she already had tentative plans to do something else that night and wants to see if she can get out of it OR does it mean she wants to see if something more interesting or fun comes along for that night before she says yes to your party. I think you should call and ask her directly whether or not she's going. You deserve to know NOW so you can invite someone else if she decides not to go with you.
It's very nice that you were there for her when she needed someone to talk to, but I wouldn't necessarily take that to mean that she has a romantic interest in you. She just ended a relationship and may need a little breathing room before starting another.
2006-12-09 18:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has a lot of time to spend on the phone she may not have a b/f, sounds like she likes to play games.
2006-12-09 18:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman obviously used you as her escape from her "boyfriend". She is trying to tell you that she likes you (a lot!) but is making excuses such as you've said to hide it from her guy. She probably became bored of her ex and now is hitting on you. My advice: don't push it. The girl is getting emotionally attached to you and unless you like this woman as well, keep it on the down low. If you do like her, go for it! Good luck!
2006-12-09 18:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by gal-next-door17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously is this tim from the office? im sure you got together at the christmas special last year..
she wants to get with you, she feels that comfortable with you that she can tell you everything.. tellin you shes finishing with her bf is the hint for you to step up and be a man.. but i think you should wait a few weeks before making that step, unless she comes on to you.. but even then she might be on the rebound
2006-12-09 18:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and ask her flat out what's up?
Just say hey are we friends, and when she says yes say is that all you want or would you like to be more.
2006-12-09 18:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes' getting obsessed wit u
2006-12-09 18:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing you. dont waste your time anymore. the ball is in her court. move on.
2006-12-09 19:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋