I was dating someone and things didn't work out. He really broke my heart, but I know it was his fault, and not mine. But anyway, his best friend is also my best friend. We're really close and he really understands me. He's been there for me through this whole thing, and defends me even though my ex is his best friend. I think I'm in love with him. He told me he used to like me, a lot, but that was when me and my ex were together. He says he kind of still does, but he is dating another girl... across the country. I know he loves her a lot, but she is so far away. I'm really hurt and he's helped me through this a lot.... but I feel like I missed my chance for a relationship with him.
2006-12-09 10:25:10 · 23 answers · asked by isabella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your heart is broken, take some time to heal yourself, don't even think about getting into another relationship right now.
If things are meant to happen between you and your friend they eventually will and you'll be emotionally ready.
If not, you'll be emotionally ready to date someone else.
2006-12-09 10:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by aljo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well i think that you should tell him how you feel and that you really appreciate him being there for you, and that a relationship between you to might be worth giving a chance.The only tough part is his girlfriend well whats the story on them?Well long distance relationships really never work out so eventually it will be over. But maybe you could speed up the process. Take your guys friend ship to the next level.maybe try to flirt a lil bit more with him and maybe go out to a movie,dinner or something cute of someting you really wouldn't wear when your hanging out with him show him that theres another side to you and you can be more than a bestfriend. Hopefully he'll realize what he's missing out on, and think "why wait for someone so far when i could have someone that could love me right here.
well i hope that my advice helps
2006-12-09 18:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by diamondlife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding!! I wouldn't be trying to jump in another relationship so soon. The boy has a girlfriend no matter where she stay. yeah they ain't gon last (they never do) but dont take some of the other advice and flirt with someone else.that is so dirty!!! And did you stop to think that if yall did get together an things did not work, how would that would reflect on yall amazing friendship
2006-12-09 18:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think u did miss your chance with him since u was dating someone when he liked u and now that your single he is dating someone who he really cares about if u really like him u will wait until he is free and not mess up anything that he already got going on just be his friend for now thats all u can do and u really need to take some time to get over your ex instead of trying to get into another relationship so fast take time to heal
2006-12-09 18:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are rebounding. There's more than two guys in this world. You're hurting now, so you just want to cling to the first guy you make any sort of bond with.( The one that's there for you.) Take your time and find someone else. This guy got another girl now, be happy for him and don't try to mess things up, just move on.
2006-12-09 18:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend, you wouldn't want someone to move in on your man, bad karma! You will find someone new, but for now you must accept that you have been hurt, learn from it, surround yourself with your friends, find fun things to do....make plans to do something, like take a vacation and HEAL! You need to make YOU happy, nobody else can do that for you. Trust me, I know, been there and it hurts like you know what. If you do the things I mentioned though, you will begin to smile again and have fun and move forward...never go back!
Good Luck and stay true to yourself!!
2006-12-09 18:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really is worth it and really has feelings for u he will forget about the long distance thing trust me long distance sucks just wait around and see what happens but while ur waiting enjoy ur life dont let this get u down u never know maybe this happend for a reason maybe there is something bigger and better just around the corner ! well i hope everything works out for u!
2006-12-09 18:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by goodness gracious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. Make the first move.Who wants to wait to see a girl across the country. When you can have one in your backyard.
2006-12-09 18:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things change , people change, circumstances change.
I think if ya love somebody there's always some chance.
Even if not its fun to contemplate and dream.
Sometimes its all we get.
2006-12-09 18:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is honest and letting you know, that he is dating another girl and he kind of still likes you. If you really like him than wait til he is free.
2006-12-09 18:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋