alright so im 14 and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since .....a long time more than 6 weeks. we have hugged. but he only hugged me after highschool football games. (everyone in my town goes to them) we haven't kissed and he has only called twice. its like he needs a reason to call me. he talks to me in french when we can talk and he sometimes wanlks with me to lunch and stuff. But that was when both of our friends ditched us at the same time so we were left alone like right next to eachother so we walked and talked. He talks to me outside my bus after school when he doesnt have practice. but he wont make any moves at all!!!!!!! i want him to call and crap like that but he like is too afraid to???????? i dont even know. hes had other girlfriends before so i dk whats going on they were in high school 2. (we're in 8th) i dk even know what im talking about just help me!!!!
2006-12-09 10:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has said many times he does like me to like other people. and yeah i can sorta tell too. this one time online he said i was amazing and he didnt know what he would do without me but he like never says stuff like that. I'm wondering if hes shy or something? like i said i dont know what i mean
2006-12-09 10:29:20 · update #1
"i dk even know what im talking about just help me!!!!"
LOL! You're so funny. :)
I've been in the same place as that guy. I remember a girl I wanted to kiss soo bad but I was too nervous! I think she got really mad at me after awhile.
I think you should go 75% of the way to kiss him...like when you are hugging him put your lips close to his. Then let him do the remaining 25% and kiss you!
Just give him a little help. :)
2006-12-09 10:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Edward 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you're 14, don't worry about it. You'll have plenty of time to kiss him and other guys, but don't be in such a hurry. You're still only 14, and I don't mean that in a mean way ... you have a lot of time. You don't need to be really romantic, but at the same time, I think it's a little odd if he's your "boyfriend". Does he really want a girlfriend? Will he hold your hand? Will he let you hold his hand? If it's been a couple of months, there's absolutely no reason you need long-term commitment at your age, so if he's not doing anything any other friend would do, then stop calling him your "boyfriend" and open up your options if there are other guys you like.
I'd say to get to know quite a few different guys to see what things you like about their personalities, quirks you detest, and things you might look for in many years down the road when you are looking for longer-term commitment.
2006-12-09 10:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by M H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you guys are both young and well yeah maybe he is afraid to talk to you cause he doesn't know what to say or how to treat his girlfriends. After all you guys are both in 8th grade still. Guys really don't know what they want until they are a lot older. Make it easy on him. Call him some time and talk to him and ask him some times about going to lunch. Instead of both your friends ditching you. Communicate with each other. As for him making the moves.. he might not know how..
2006-12-09 10:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call him.
being a guy myself, i actually hate talking on the phone. i would rather talk with my gf in person anyday. but im just a guy so what do i know.
since you're only in 8th grade dont be suprised if everything isnt perfect. and 6 weeks is not a long time. after a year or two things will seem way better.
2006-12-09 10:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by program dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should just talk to him because that same problem happened to me and my boyfriend wouldent even talk to me or wait for me. And then the day that he dumped me he gave me a towel saying my name. I did not know what to do. But now is when I think about it and I think that I should of done way more. Like get thetowel and throw it on his face. But I dident because I was too shy and too scared but that should not happen to you. Well just tell him the truth and I hope that you would not regret it like I am doing.
2006-12-09 10:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax take deep breath ,give him time and be glad he's not a player sounds like you might have got one thats worth keeping so go slow take your time,you have lots of it yet to come.everytime you jump into something quick,u get hurt a little bit and it takes something from you and you cant get it back.
try holding hands with him ,L8R on in life thats what u will find out that means the most,just holding hands...good luck 2 u
2006-12-09 10:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by marshall m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously doesnt like you. I'm not trying to be mean but i think hes just using you right now just so he can have a girl. u deserve better. Find someone who will actually call you and say whats up
2006-12-09 10:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you are hot! Calm down. If he really liked you he would be doing more. You don't need him to anyway. Read a book. An age appropriate book.
2006-12-09 10:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by ya girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him.
But not in public the firest time.
Make it a good french kiss.
Don't have lipstick on though
2006-12-09 10:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋