Me +my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months, we really like eachother alot. In the begiining of the realationship we were always together, i rly enjoy being with him but occasionally i want to hang out w/ my friends to.. 1 time i decide to hang out with one of my close friends, i haden't seen her in about 3 weeks so i figured i should catch up w/ her. neyway this nite i was supposed to hang out with my boyfriend but i had to cancel. Me and him had already seen eachother many times that weekend so i didn't think he would be mad. But he was, he said it was supposed to be our nite. I said i was sorry, but he was lke yelling at me. neway since then he has been really diffrent, be4 my friends often called him over protective. yet now hes the opposite, whenever we hang out all we do is have sex, and were always with his friends. hes now always w/ his friends. Not that i really care its just really, weird when he went from always wanting to b w/ me to the opposite. wat do u think?
2006-12-09 10:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see being a guy i must say yes that guys r kinda overprotective.....and this is a part of love and care for you.....since ur relation is like few months old only....u should give him some time......this feelin of overprotectiveness or insecurity will go with time.....see love is understanding , sacrifice and compromise.....im not sayin that u should only understand and compromise....but one has to do it....either you or him and thn give some time to the relation.....it will get better slowly when there will be more understanding between you guys....
2006-12-09 11:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by gourav_talks22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same thing but ive came to the conclusion that guys have PMS too and sometimes they just need time to be by themselves .... give him a little bit of time and try to act like you dont care what he is doing do what he does to you right back and you'll get him back if not wait a little while then dump him!
2006-12-09 10:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remove yourself from that relationship, check out the other fish in the sea. Its not worth it if hes treating u wrong or is too over protective. And the fact that all u do when u r together is have sex is lame. that shows that he is usuing u for your body, and the fact that u spend alot of time with his friends means that he could also be using u as a trophy.
As i said, its not worth it, remove urself from the relationship...
2006-12-09 10:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In two simple words-- "DUMP HIM"
No seriously, why do u wanna put up with his weird behaviour, there are thousands of good looking, compassionate guys around,, start lookin out for them
good luck!!
2006-12-09 10:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by F4ID 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gonna pout for as long as it takes. As long as you put up w/ it , that is. Ignore him for a few days (don't be available) and see what happens. If he comes around, fine, if not, then you didn't loose much.
2006-12-09 10:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the person
2006-12-09 12:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋