My bestfriend ( Melonie) just started dating this (2 weeks ago) boy named ( Ryan) and I don`t really think he attracted to her I think he attracted to me becuae, he always messes around with me and he sits next to me. And I think he only dated her because he felt sorry for her ( shes ugly) and thats wat he did to my other friend. But anyways I heard him say he was going to dump her and try to get with me WHAT SGHOULD I DO HELP!
2006-12-09 10:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by ms.cutiegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not mean to call my best friend ugly but she`s very unique in her own way!
2006-12-09 10:24:21 · update #1
Using someone and then hurting them to get to someone else is tacky, cheap, and of low character.
I'd let him break up with her ('cause he's gonna anyway).... tell her what he was up to..... and then refuse him when he asks you.... and I wouldn't be nice about it either!
A real man doesn't use women. He's sincere and honest in his relationships.
If you settle for this bum, you will only be with bums through your life. You need to decide what kind of man you want to be with.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-09 10:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well saying she is ugly isn't the first step to sloving your problem, maybe you should ta;lk to her and not talk to that guy...guys are mean and when bestfriends backstabb it hurts, so make sure you tell her the truth, and don't hook up with him even if you like him becuase you'll ruin your friendship, unless she says its ok becuase she really doesn't like him, make sure to be sweet and sensitive.
2006-12-09 18:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by XxSnowboardBabexX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should tell 1 of ur other friends wats happenin.nd if that doesnt work wen he dumps her nd tries to get wit u make sure u tell him off in front of alot of ppl so they see that u r a good friend!good luck!!!
2006-12-09 18:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by ninitect400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u have feeling for him too and if so do u think that the feelings u have for him r strong enough to risk a friendship? i guess before u think about getting with him u should go over the pros and cons of the situation.
2006-12-09 18:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by goodness gracious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date him. and tell your friend. ugly or attractive, she has feelings. and you shouldn't be flirting or allowing your friends bf to flirt with you. cut him off. tell him friends come first and there are millions of cute boys out there. trust me. friendship is more important
2006-12-09 18:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by lotuseclipse09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take him, and how could you call your friend ugly? He deosnt deserve you if he did that to your friend. when he try's to get with you tell him once you hurt my friend don't try to get with me. Oh and tell your friend, he'll be so embarressed if the ungly one dumped the good looking one ( if he's good looking) he'll never see it coming.
2006-12-09 18:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not for nothing dear, but this is terrible. my advice to YOU is to be VERY CAREFUL. If he doesn't like your best friend then both of you should leave. guys come and go but a friend is 4ever.
again, do not let him go after you!
2006-12-09 18:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a true frnd u wld wait n when the time cums say no to him, but the fact that u say ur frnd is ugly i dont tink u are a true frnd,
2006-12-09 18:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think
Doaa A
2006-12-09 18:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Doaa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u mean, hw could u call ur bestfriend ugle, even if she is, u suppose 2 be her friend, u aint suppose 2 say dat. if he doin dat behind her tell, tell her dats wat bestfriends r suppose 2 do.
2006-12-09 18:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Babygurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋