2006-12-09 10:06:43 · 11 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
about being betrayed,lied to,cheated on....
2006-12-09 10:07:21 · update #1
by someone ive been only with for 5 years...plus was virgin when met so he is only one.
2006-12-09 10:07:51 · update #2
Bouncing back after a breakup is always tough. I can empathize with you. I recently split with my girlfriend of six years after I caught her cheating on me. My first impulse was to toss everything she had at my apartment right out off my balcony. But I kept my composure. I just told her to gather up her stuff and get the hell out of my life! I was devastated, I thought we had put so much into the relationship, apparently, I was the only one that wanted the relationship to work!
Well, it has been a few weeks now, and I am still kind of devastated. I wish I could tell you that there is some easy formula to getting over somebody... But the only thing that will mend a broken heart is time. I know it is hard to think about stuff like this now, but somebody else will eventually come along. Hopefully the next person that you decide to build a relationship with will treat you with the respect and admiration that you deserve.
If you are sure that your relationship is un able to be fixed, the first thing you need to do is get rid of everything that you have that reminds you of your ex. It is the old "Out of sight-Out of mind" thing. Then Go out and do some special things for yourself. Perhaps you can visit a spa, or just go for a nice long walk outside and enjoy the quiet. The fresh air will do you good!
Most importantly, the thing you need most now is the support of those close to you. Get some friends togher and celibrate your new-found single status!
Also, you could probably use a hug.... SO ((HUG))!!!
I hope you start to feel better about things, if you ever need to vent you can feel free to e mail me.
Take care!!
2006-12-09 10:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by jam961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safari : you can just try to relax and have good hopes
for yourself personnly because alot of things happends between
both dating couples . As usal broken heart takes an long time
to mend yes so take a deep breath and stay free from now on
out !
dont let depression get in your way ok?
2006-12-09 18:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well without knowing the scenario, it's hard to say. I would think that at this point you are past trying to talk to him. Try and talk to someone you know - someone who knows you guys. Maybe a good friend of yours. Anything on answers is hard because no one knows ALL the details.
2006-12-09 18:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get your mind off the problems and issues. Go shopping even if you don't buy anything. Or, go see or rent a movie.
You could call up a friend and ask them to cheer you up.
Or, go to the local Starbucks and have a cup of coffee.
2006-12-09 18:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds bad but all i hav to say is been there n i learnt that life goes on u meet so many new ppl n in the future wat u feel now will b gone, it takes time, but its up to u to decide how long u want to feel like this,
if u caught him red handed then u def never want to consider goin back to him, n also no matter how much u try u wont forget him cos u lost ur virginity to him, so jus tink of it positively n move on
2006-12-09 18:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, sometimes the ones that hurt you may not think you have the right to be mad. Only if it happens to them will they think one has a right to be mad in your situation. Hopefully this isn't your case.
2006-12-09 18:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothin you can do except get on with your studies/work, go out with your friends even though you don't feel like doing anything and try to stay positive.. if you don't you will fall into possibly extreme depression. if you do positive things with your time from now on, eventually you will get over it.
2006-12-09 18:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by wisewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This calls for some major retribution involving the burning of flesh.
2006-12-09 18:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i was just in a situation like that..not just liket his..but in a way..and i totally know how you felt..i cryed alot- and i talked to him about it and worked it out...if things were meant to be then they will work out, but if it doesnt then things will just fall apart..there are better guys in the world and you dont deserve to be treated like that.
2006-12-09 18:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by ashley g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what someone does to you, Only how you react to it.
2006-12-09 18:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋