shoud i talk to her teacher about it?
2006-12-09 10:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anni 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Thats a great idea. But she needs to make friends on her own, but the teacher can set up groups for her to play w/ while shes in class. Kids are getting meaner and meaner younger. Maybe give her a doll to take the school. Thats something all little girls like and it will start a conversation. Good Luck
2006-12-09 10:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely talk to the teacher. A 3 year-old doesn't always have a clear picture of what is going on. The teacher can separate fact from fiction for you. Also, if it is something that your daughter is doing, the teacher can give you ideas on how to overcome the problem.
My 3 year-old complains about the boys picking on her, calling her "short", etc. She'll occasionally cry before going to school but everyday when I pick her up she is surrounded by friends and they all have smiles on their faces.
2006-12-09 12:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like my DD and now she is 5! Does she have any hobbies? I mean does she like any particular sport? Going to the zoo? Seeing horses? Playing with animals? I ask because this REALLY helped my DD. I found that the more I took her on a regualr basis, it built up her confidence. As her confidence grew, she became more confident at school. It was a big turn around. Animals are great therapy! Talk to her. But don't make her feel self concious about herself either. Meaning, don't dwell on it. Ask a few questions and move on. If you keep staying on that subject she is going to remember it and think there is something really wrong. Good luck!
2006-12-09 10:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by plharg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely mention it to her teacher. maybe the teacher can pay attention and see who your daughter is playing with and see if she really is playing alone or is getting upset.
chances are she is just being 3 and she had someone say to her that they didn't want to be her best friend. all i hear all day long in my classroom is so and so isn't my best friend...do you want to be my best friend?...you can only be my best friend if you like hot wheels or if you don't like girl toys or if you have the Aladdin movie. it happens year after year and they all do it!
i will jump in and say, "no, at preschool we are all friends, right?" and come to the child being left outs aid and all of a sudden that child will respond with its own best friend statement!
does your daughter say why the kids don't want to play with her? does she still seem happy to go to school? is she upset when you pick her up?
good luck. SD
2006-12-09 13:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by SD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a great idea. Its always the best way to handle any concerns. I am a early childevelpment teacher. There is nothing like parent/ teacher communication!
2006-12-09 10:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely talk to the teacher about it! Your daughter may be doing someting at school that the other kids don't like, like maybe crying or hitting... I am not saying that she is, but there is probably something that they day care is not telling you... Or it might be that the other kids are older than her.
2006-12-09 10:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Middekibby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your daughter might be too grown up for the 3 yr old's in her class.They might outcast her because she doesn't play right, but you should talk to the teacher and find out the problem. You need to know what to do and tell your daughter
2006-12-09 10:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's three and goes to school???
2006-12-09 14:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by BabyDolll128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋