ok my fiance and i have been together for 4 years. the place that i work at he has 2 aunts and a cousin whom work there as well. last night when i got home i got met at the door by him. he was screaming and yelling at me saying that i was cheating on him and that i have people coming to see me at work and all other kinds of b*****it. the bad thing is that this rumor was started by one of his aunts husbands. so what do i do. i love him with all my heart and would do anything at all for him, we have a son together and i would never cheat on him. help please
2006-12-09 09:53:51 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him it's not your fault some people have no life and have nothing better to do with their time than fabricate stories about you. Is he so shallow that he believes these people and treats what they say as the gosepl truth? If so, then he isn't the one for you. He should be defending you, not bashing you.
2006-12-09 10:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be cheating on you. For some reason when a person is cheating and they begin to feel guilty, and are going through the motions they begin to imagine that their significant other is cheating on them. This is why they say the empty can always rattles.
I would tell him that the rumors are stupid. That if I was cheating on him then I would be smarter than that about it. I would have the guy meet me somewhere when his family isn't around, not in the place where I work with his family. And that he is an idiot if he believes all that crap.
You can't live like this forever though. If he is going to continue believing lies about you and fighting with you about it, it is better for your son that you move away from him. The child shouldn't have to hear or see you two fighting all the time.
2006-12-09 10:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apoarently he doesn't believe in really been in love with you, and the aunts husband is an idiot who doesn't have nothing better to do. If you boyfriend really loves you he will go and get teh true from his aunt's husband and if he's lying I would whip his butt for lying and hurting you and him. Sit him down and talk with him and explain it's all a lie and is he willing to lose everything over a lie. ANd if he sticks to saying your cheating on him, well get rid of him. AND you take you and your son and have him pay for child support and tell him if he believe's his aunt's husband so much go sleep with him.
2006-12-09 10:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry to his parents and be sincere about the situation to them. They are the primary people that should set the tone as far as how you would be perceived by the entire family. They are the ones that should accept you as the wife of thier son. As far as your original question.....the first thing that came to my mind is insecurity, and jealousy. So that is whats going on with his relatives.
2006-12-09 10:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assure him you would never cheat on him. Confront his aunt's husband.
2006-12-09 09:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are just mean and nasty. You need to eliminate these type of people from your life. Find a new job. You need to sit him down and talk to him. Good luck!!
2006-12-09 10:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by luv3dbb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing left to do. Eliminate all of your enemies! People cannot cause you problems if they are not living.
2006-12-09 09:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most are started due to jealousy
2006-12-09 09:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband
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2006-12-09 09:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋