my 16 year old is into drugs, she ran away, and she thinks nobody loves her, in her poetry, she keeps writing about things that have to do with death, and how she feels so left out tlike noboby loves her, i have tryed over, and over agian to tell her other wise, but all she says is lm sorry mom, this hole life thing isnt for me, what now?
2006-12-09 09:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by icantdothisanymore 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Software
True, wrong section but still important. Show her that people love her i guess. Also remember that that age is not an easy one. Sometimes they feel left out because they dont have many friends or maybe she feels bad about the way she looks, whatever that is. Just show her that you are there for her..Get her *** into rehab too!
2006-12-09 09:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing you should do is fill out a missing person's report as she is a minor. And do everything possible to get the police not to wait the 24 hours before taking any action. Try and explain that she is a drug user and may be suicidal and time is important. Then they should waive the 24 hour waiting period.
Sounds like you really are in need of family therapy. I don't know what your financial situation is or even what country you reside in.
If you have family insurance that covers mental illness or drug abuse then you should use your insurance. If you don't you should look in your local white/yellow telephone pages for a mental health support agency.
Are you sure that there is no sexual abuse going on with the father towards his daughter. (I am quite curious why she hates her father, uses drugs and writes poetry about death).
All of my patients that don't wish to express themselves on a verbal level, I insist they write in a note book, or even write poetry. You would be amazed what insight I obtain from how they express themselves in writing.
Hope that you get her back safe an alive. God bless you and her. Wish you all the best.
Clinical Psychiatrist, France
Excuse my english
2006-12-09 09:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by MINDDOCTOR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 11:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a councelor. maybe theres something she isnt telling you thats making her feel that way
2006-12-09 09:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in the wrong section to be asking a question like that
2006-12-09 09:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She need to be confined to an in-house program, so she doesn't hurt herself.
2006-12-09 09:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋