my ex and i are having a messy time...soooo....here's the thing...we had dated over 4 yrs ago for 3 yrs (known one another for 7 yrs)...anyway...we hooked up last week and after then, i didnt hear from him...so, i texted him...i asked why he was being so distance and he said sorry, he didnt mean to be and that he was stressed and depressed...he said he needed some time alone...WTF...then he said would it be ok if we were coffee buddies instead...WHAT? is he confused? since he said he needed time to think over his thoughts?? WHY dont guys just tell it how it is?? THOUGHTS? dont be cruel.....
2006-12-09 09:44:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's not as easy as it seams. It's not always that easy to decide if you want to be with someone or not. Let him have his space. Sometimes backing away makes you think or see things more clearly. He can find out that he misses you and wants to be with you. Just give him what he wants now and don't pressure him or anything. Be his "coffee buddy" for now, and see what happens...
2006-12-09 09:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this guy is an emotinal wreck so let him be depress and be his coffee buddy he sounds like he has no clue what he wants from you so let him go
2006-12-09 17:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cross burnt bridges
2006-12-09 17:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like perhaps it was just lust, and thats why it happend at first?
Or perhaps the worst? and that he was just using you?
2006-12-09 17:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋