So, I've been dating this guy for 8 months now, and I'm having the hardest time getting over this. It's December now, well this past May one of the girls from his past called him while he was at his house. He didn't leave the room or anything, but he sounded really excited when she called, he was just like "Well I'll call you back tomorrow, my g/f is here, and we're gonna hang out." He called her back, and was open with me about it, and just told me that he told her about me the entire time. He's also told me that she'll always hold a place in his heart because she was his first kiss, but it was nothing more, and he never loved her. She tried getting him to hang out with her while we were dating, but he never did, nor did he want to. With her he waited for her for 3 months to get over her boyfriend and to date him, but then he said he realized that it wouldn't ever work out with him and her, but he wanted to be her friend. He hasn't talked to her since May. What is he feeling?
2006-12-09 09:26:29 · 12 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont trip over it this one bit** that was my man first kiss is all wes hangin out wit him butt see i trust my man to not do ant thing stupid just give him a little trust
2006-12-09 09:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for the most part he is happy being with you. So you shouldn't worry about him leaving you for some one else. On top of the fact that he was completley open with you about it. Only goes to show you that he respects you and cares deeply about you. So how hes feeling about it is he thinks of her as a friend and looks at her as a friend.
When he called he was excited cause it was a friend he hadn't heared from in a while. Its like you getting a call from a friend you lost contact with and then hear from all of a sudden. Yes there is going to be history behind his relationship with her, but he was honest with you and open with you about it. So you don't need to worry about him.
2006-12-09 11:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella Moore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is just a good past memory. If he is not attempting to hide behind your back and is open and honest with you what is your problem? No one ever forgets their first anything. Don't make problems when there are none. If this is all you have to worry about it sounds as if you have a pretty decent relationship. Don't let your insecurities destroy what seems to be a good relationship.
2006-12-09 09:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always hurtful when men hold on to something from their past. if this girl is trying to get him to "hang out" with her, sounds like maybe she still cares for him, and thinks she has a chance. sounds good that he has'nt . i don't think he loves her, but maybe you should talk to him about this. tell him it bothers you, and that it is hurtful for their to be another woman in his heart besides you. that's not to say he should'nt ever think about his first kiss.... we all do, but it seems like on some level these two still have a relationship, if you are not comfortable with that, i think yall two should have a good talk, you can't go on, always worrying if you are the one he is thinking about.
2006-12-09 09:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could not attempt adult males are obdurate and if she needs him back he will in all likelihood come returned. Its painful, whether it variety of feels he does not prefer to be on my own. you could rather pass on in the previous you get tooo in contact and depressed. Love may well be suffering so why wait around longer to be harm. have confidence me been in an prolonged relationship and that i'm waiting for it to get greater helpful yet rather suffering. you are going to be able to love him yet you cant make somebody love you back hon. rattling i think you please do not make your self go through
2016-10-18 00:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not feeling much of anything, and has even probably forgotten about talking with her back in may....i wouldn't sweat this one...just make sure they don't talk anymore or hang out.
2006-12-09 09:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by celeste_moon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to be friends and she wont something more.. with time she will find some elas and her and your bf could be friends again and you to could be her friend,, i got a male friend that when he had someone he was find but when she left him he wanted me lucky for my my bf is understanding about that and i dont call him as much as i use to i am letting him find someone elas that could be what your bf is doing
2006-12-09 09:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not quite sure. it might just be that he got a call from an old friend and was happy about it.
2006-12-09 09:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he still has alot of feelings for her. if that is what you already knew then i didn't really understand the question.
2006-12-09 09:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by luvergirl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR LUCKY! it really doesnt matter that much, its obvious he loves you more, you should be happy!
2006-12-09 09:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by jared 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋