i keep getting paranoid about people who might be my friend and even people i dont even know are talking about me in a bad way when they are not.i use to get bullyed and it has effected me alot,is that normal that this is happening to me and if not what should i do about it.the bullying hurt me alot cause people did use to talk about me behind my back and i use to hear what they would say about me
2006-12-09 09:11:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
They *are* talking about you behind your back! When you're paraniod you behave in a way that brings comments. This isn't a nessesarily bad thing, they may be concerned about you, or find your paranior hard to deal with. Once you accept that people have the right to talk about who ever they wish. And that the majority of people mean no harm towards you, even if what they say is negative. Then and only then are you becoming a more balanced human being. And then they will still talk about you but they will probably say nicer things.
2006-12-09 09:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by selchiequeen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are paranoid. BUT, the real issue is not whether or not people talk behind your back, it is whether you will control how it effects you In the end it doesn't matter if people really are talking about you or if you just think they are. The only sane response is the same either way. Get over it. Ignore it. Let them talk if they want to. Conduct your life as best you can so they have little to talk about and if they want to lie, you can't stop them so don't try. Its only hurting you. Relax. It doesn't matter. Peace.
2016-05-22 23:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you are feeling is not that uncommon. It is probably related to your past, but not as true as your mind wants to think.
You want to be present in people's minds, but you feel if they aren't saying good things, they must be saying bad.
It's not true that people have to have an opinion about you. They are probably indifferent to you. Just don't them a reason to say anything bad about you. Just be friendly without being a bother, be nice and help people out who need it. You'll be just fine.
If there is any reason in your life for brain disorder, you may want to see a psychiatrist. I had brain trauma that was the reason for my delusions (false beliefs - in my case that everyone hated me and wanted to destroy me). There are drugs that help that.
2006-12-09 09:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mike J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowledge, is what scares them most. Knuckle down + study hard when you`ve got qualifications, you can say up yours to the tormentors. Keep battling on.
2006-12-09 10:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by CLIVE C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go over your head, words cannot hurt you. If someone is slagging you off they are leaving someone else alone. Life is like that everyone talks bad about someone some time. its no big deal rise above it you are better than them!
2006-12-09 09:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you bothered what people think about you, life is too short to be worried about what people think, concentrate on your confidence, don't let people think they're getting to you even if they are.good luck!
2006-12-09 10:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and don't worry about what people think of you...It's what you think of yourself that matters.
2006-12-09 09:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by boots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problombut i always tell me momand she said that people arent really talking about you and that it is all in my head.........and who cares what people say?
2006-12-12 03:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother and just ignore them.
2006-12-09 12:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋