2006-12-09 09:00:04 · 15 answers · asked by kae_je 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i guess you would use the direct approach and an appropriate setting..no one takes this news easily but hopefully the love in your familywill survive it..good luck.
2006-12-09 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you use the word "confess"
have you done something wrong???
i know the answer is no, so don't worry about this.
if your parents are not suportive, that is thier problem.
you just have to be honest with them. give them the benifit of the doubt.
i hope it all turns out ok.
2006-12-09 17:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Neorini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. If they love you (which I am sure they do...) they will accept it and move on. You owe it to them to be honest. I would tell my folks anything and risk them being hurt and a little angry then continue to keep a secret from them. No way I could live a lie.
When they are grown, if my sons ever come to me with this issue, it will bother me, but I would rather they tell me then keep it from me.
2006-12-09 17:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try and confess your true feelings because if they love you, they will except things the way they are.
2006-12-09 17:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it is something that you are ashamed of by even asking this question. Don't you think there just might be something wrong with it, if you have to feel ashamed of it, and not knowing how to tell them about it? Hmmmmmmmm....
2006-12-09 17:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dee N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it a confesson? I'd say when you are okay with it just say it. " Mom and Dad I'm gay" . Of course it depends on your family too. If they are gonna freak out and make a federal case out of it why bother.
2006-12-09 17:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,its not a confession, you havent done anything wrong. just tell them straight up how it is, that this is your life and this is how you choose to live it.
2006-12-09 17:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by horseyhorsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a confession you are who you are tell them
2006-12-09 17:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u have to. so what ur gay..its ur business. just spring it on them over christmas dinner. say hey im gay and this really isnt my best friend its my boyfriend. can u pass the rolls
2006-12-09 17:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them as soon as you can, the longer you wait, the less they will trust you.
2006-12-09 17:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋