i walked into the store, and there he was kissing another woman,this isnt the way i want to go with 2 children, i havent talked or even seen him for like3 days,his son is three, and his baby girl is 9 months,time to break up?
2006-12-09 08:26:37 · 28 answers · asked by icantdothisanymore 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Software
RUN, dont walk, RUN away from this man as fast as you can!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater. Have some respect for yourself and dont let someone treat you that way!!!! Even if you are alone for a while it is better than being with a cheater!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 08:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you confront him about it. He may need the wake-up call that you know about this, and that you won't stand up for it anymore.
If he is continuously cheating on you, he obviously has no interest in you or your feelings. I would suggest that you then just sit down with him and have a long talk about if he actually loves you, and if he wants to continue the relationship.
But the main thing not to do is to scream out in anger. This causes defensive maneuvers on the other person's part. Recollect and come at him with a calm manner. Remember that you could be shaping your childrens' futures with your actions.
2006-12-09 16:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy for a bystander to answer that, because the obvious answer is yes, leave him, you can't trust him or believe in him and what kind of relationship is that. But your also a mother of 2 and although I'm not saying what he did was right, everyone makes mistakes. The balls in your court and you need to follow your heart and do whats best for you, but either way you should confront him. never let someone get away with hurting you, because you'll keep letting them, and they'll walk all over you.
2006-12-09 16:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ladysassafras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to confront him on it. Then depending on his reaction to getting busted and what his explanation is decide weather or not you can trust him any longer. If you love him truly you may need to let him go, if that is what he would want. If he is not happy with you, don't take it to personally, it would be worse for both
of you to stay together. You can get over him easy enough by just getting someone new. It may take time but it will be better than having a bad marriage for years. Good Luck.
2006-12-09 16:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by MrB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That peice of garbage make me sick. Sweety you don,t deserve this before CHRISTMAS. I,m here to help you. 1. get a lawyers2. go to welfare get help for the kids. 3.file a restraining orders against him. 4. get the house you have two kids, or housing for the kids.5.have him pays alimony as your taking care of the kids.6.remember a cheater always a cheaters.7. going to counseling no quaranteed that it going to works and all that moneys for nothing.8.cut his balls off make him a women.9.make sure you now get all your documents hide them in a safe deposit box so the bastard has no asset to them, including changing bank account quickly, so he doesn,t spend it on the b--tch!10. The Mafia here to help you need any help be free to Email the boss.
2006-12-09 16:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it if he justs acts as if there was nothing wrong or he gets mad at you then yeah, but if he acts like he is really sorry and cares then forgive him and make him tell you he will never do that again. divorces are horrible and there are too many children with singles moms in this world and its not fair for the kids, seriously the adults are the ones who should grow up!
2006-12-09 16:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he really likes women. The kids' mom, you, and the other woman. It doesn't appear he has learned the meaning of commitment. It could only mean heart-ache moving forward. Count it a blessing that you found out now.
2006-12-09 16:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by curvykim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yaya, there is an old Greek saying that gos like this: "When the shepherd dog learns how to kill the lambs he is supposed to protect from the wolves, it is very difficult to stop him form killing. In other words, take care of yourself and your family the best you can and dump the lover boy!
2006-12-09 16:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are these two children your kids by him ? Either way, dump the guy and enjoy the reception as an awakening party.
2006-12-09 16:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird since in another question you are asking for advice about your 16 year old daughter.
2006-12-09 19:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋