He seems like a nice guy.
2006-12-09 08:26:05 · 15 answers · asked by Hank 5000 1 in Sports ➔ Outdoor Recreation ➔ Other - Outdoor Recreation
LOL. "Let"?
2006-12-09 08:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We could really use a bit more information here. With nothing else to go on, I will say it seems a bit strange and I can understand why you would be worried. The problem is, I can't see how you could really do anything about it anyway. If you go to the extreme and threaten to break up with her, then whether she was planning to do anything with him or not, she might be angry at you trying to control her or scared off by your jealousy and leave you. You might decide to hope she's trustworthy and keep your mouth shut, but doubts can spoil your happiness with her. When it comes down to it, if she goes, there's no way to be absolutely sure what happens, but in relationships to have to take many small risks by trusting your partner. The best thing to do is, in an open and straight-forward way, without suggesting that you don't trust her, just say that the whole situation makes you feel quite insecure. She'll have to understand how you feel and maybe she'd be prepared then to offer to sacrifice the trip to avoid worrying you and show that how much you mean to her. That is not to say that if she doesn't cancel it, that you can't trust her, maybe it's just too great a trip to pass up and feels she deserves your trust. At least then she can reassure you and make you feel better about it, and it will mean more to her that you can trust her once she appreciates how you feel about it. Only if you are not the slightest bit accusatory and she is over-defensive should you really suspect that she intends to cheat.
2006-12-09 09:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by tara4willow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel comfortable with letting her go and can trust her yoga instructor, then let her go. But if there is any doubts in your mind, do what you feel is right
2006-12-09 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, y cant she yoga at home. y does she need to be in the wild. or tell her youll be there too to protect her from the wild since you dont think the yoga instructor can handle the wild.
2006-12-09 08:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
were you invited?
my advice would be that you can't stop her from going so it's time to get strong & secure real quick. you plan something mysterious, exciting, exotic, dangerous or whatever that weekend. if u want your relationship to grow this could be a great test. i also think that if he was real and respected her man then he would of asked you.
why do they need to be so secluded? does he have a girlfriend that you can kick it with at a bar or in this case a hotel that weekend.
2006-12-09 08:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by matthew m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That seems like a good idea. When she comes back, she can share all the new sexual positions he will teach her. Send them off with an illustrated copy of the Kama Sutra to make sure they get the idea.
2006-12-09 08:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you woke up one morning on a camping trip and found vaseline all over your backside, would you tell anyone??? Wanna go camping?
2006-12-09 09:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Steve H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are ya dumb? I trust my wife, but I wouldn't le her go camping alone with another man, unless it was somebody I knew extreamly well (brother, best friend, etc)
2006-12-09 09:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by leclairro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been dating. And do you think you trust her?
2006-12-09 08:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yogis are notorious lady's men; that is a BAD idea.
2006-12-09 09:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Report Abuse 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE A NAVAL WIFE WHEN THE SAILOR RETURNS HOME, FRESHLY SCREWED
2006-12-09 09:11:12 · answer #11 · answered by L1M1J1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋