2006-12-09 08:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by llyybbss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually men grow out of that. if the man/men you are referring to are like this it could mean that they have not gone through and out the other side of that stage of their life yet. i am with a guy who is in love with me and is not sex crazed like 'most men' because he grew out of it and is at the 'settling down stage'. plus, sex is different to love, not related so if a guy is with you for sex, and does not show love, it is just sex. if he cares about you and shows it, and also enjoys sex with you, you can call it love! men show and experience it differently to women, its just nature.
2006-12-09 08:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by sarah j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll answer this because it sounds like you really need to know this. It first starts with attraction than compatibility then love and since sex is 80% of a relationship, of course there's going to talk and need involved in the start of something good and I'm not talking about you need to put out on the first date if that's not want to do. This is where respect comes in on both sides. making a man or women wait is OK for a short time but if the person(him or her) is sexually driven, that person will find it somewhere else if sex is taboo which brings up another part of a serious part of the relationship and that's, "sexually compatibility, " if your not, the relationship will not work.
2006-12-09 16:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't true...maybe where you live. Find someone that doesn't think that. There are still a lot of people that believe in "No Sex before Marriage" you know...me being one of them.
It just sounds like you have had bad luck finding a guy out there like this. If they are only interested in sex, just forget about them.
Move on. A relationship is about much more than sex, and that's the way it should be.
2006-12-09 16:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think about sex once ever 11 minutes - they have tested this many different time - that does not preclude that they are not capable of love only that they think about it differently than women do. If you want a some one to love you like you love them - become a lesbian and have a blast. Guys will love you but not the way you want.
Men will use love to get sex and women will use sex to get love - its the way of the world.
2006-12-09 16:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends if the sex is good
2006-12-09 16:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Eric c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in love if the feeling for her are still there even with the sex and overcome it.
2006-12-09 16:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although we might think about sex alot its not the only thing we think about guys are deeper then you think
2006-12-09 16:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by chuy85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS NOT TRUE
2006-12-09 16:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by dragons777dr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋