I have no one who will talk to me without throwing my words back at me later. Thats what my mother does. If later I dont agree with her she calls me abnormal. It hurts coz she says I can lean on her but I cant.
When ppl tell me went out my feelings to God I dont know the answer to my problem...Coz I dont understand how God wants me to solve my problem.
I feel like something is stuck in my throat. I dont know what God wants me to do..How can I communicate with him? Coz if I understand the correct stuff..why doesnt the problem seem to get solved?
Im a Muslim.
2006-12-09 07:25:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
thanks you all. I feel so so much better.
thanks.
2006-12-09 23:13:15 · update #1
I wanted to change for God. For his sake. But God doesn’t need me. He told me this (through Quran). He wants me to change for myself. So that I may do what will get me best results. Its an open secret. We want to do what is best for us. So does God want us to do whats best for us. So whats the problem? He knows we are weak. He doesn’t want us to suffer. I made me suffer. And that was wrong.it’s a crime to suffer, when God gave you so much. God says if you do whats good for u God will love you even more. Oh God. Ive been so fullish . Thank you Allah. Thank you for this wisdom.
2006-12-10 01:03:26 · update #2
Try and sit down more with your mum. Get everything you want to ask her and tell her on paper. Buy her a rose. From the way you talk you seem to have a lot of respect for your mum, You would do any thing for her.
Tell her exactly how you feel what you told us. A lot of times this happens people don't understand your good intentions. So we have to change. God wants you to listen to your parents, and when you are older you will be stronger then them and have to take care of them when they are weak. I'm a father and i can tell you your mother loves you very much. But you need to show her how you feel. Stop trying to protect your self from hurt. You have to let the hurt in, you have to experience hurt to know it.
Brb with more hope im not boring you
2006-12-09 07:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a men is depressed,i think ,that men hasn't a good relation with his soul. Must live in armony with our soul ,from it comes the joy,peace,to be glad,don't be selfish........to love,the uderstanding the limits of others mens,to accept them.....and don't give up the love never.
The cause of my depression ,is how i feel, an life experience .Must have more trust in me, i don't lost my energy ,speaking with mens who don't understand me,i must to rezolve my depression,not others mens. Where i take a mistake?I ask more much from mens?
God gives to us a simple life,we are a work every day to do,after that we are free time,in which we must do something which we like,find what you like from this world,will give to you many joy.
About the relation with God, i tell you a short story.A boy which doesn't know to read,loves God and goes to church,and stay there, and says'dear God i don't know to prayer but i come here just,to be with You'.That happened many days.One day the boy was sick ,in hospital,
and on his hospital bed,see a Men closed in white,who says to the boy:
'I come at you just to be with you'.
2006-12-09 08:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by mirna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.Lots of prayer and meditation helps.I am a Christian,but I know how it feels to be un-balanced/have a lost communication with God.I have not been in the best mental condition either,but I dont feel like being a burden to my parents.I am just hoping it will pass....
I will pray for you,I hope you feel better soon!
2006-12-09 07:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to overcome depression, you must deal with the fear of the future, you need something that can anchor your life so that no matter what happens, you won't be blown off course. the only thing that can anchor you is God, and the only way you discover him is through jesus christ.ultimately, if you will build your relationship with him, god will enable you to face whatever is happening in your life and to come out victoriously, you may go through difficulty, hardship, or trail, but as long as you are anchored to him, you will have hope. when god speaks, one of the most prevlant signs is a sense of calmness in the spirit. it may not be tranquil at first. in fact, it may be full of conflict and strife, but the longer we listen, the quieter and more peaceful our spirits become. we begin to possess what the apostle Paul called "a peace that surpasses all understanding". it is a peace that surrounds us loke a fortress and keeps us from being overwhelmed with depression, worry, and frustration. when that sort of peace comes to us, we know we've heard from god, and we are confident it is his voice. pray this: " father, thank you that i am secure in you. take my depression and anxiety and replace them with trust. i commit my future into your hands. may your peace rule my heart this day.O God, help me to focus on you, not my circumstances, let your peace drive out all of my worries and be the ruler of each decision i make this day and forever...amen. i hoped this helped you, my God's love be the light that shines through your life.
2006-12-09 08:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by wayne b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep searching, friend, and eventually you'll find your own personal truth. It wasn't that long or hard a road for me, because my best friend is incredibly supportive and likes discussing philosophy; I've been very lucky. I can only wish the same luck to you, and hope you get out of this rut.
Don't let the proselytizers get you down.
2006-12-09 07:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by The Lurkdragon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Salam,
Please click on the following links:
http://www.idca.org.au/
http://www.sunnahonline.com/ilm/purification/0044.htm
It has alot of great benficial articles regarding your problem.
Please remember to make alot of Duaa, such as:
Supplication (Ad-Duaa)
O Ever Living, O Self-Subsisting and Supporter of all, by Your mercy I seek assistance. Rectify for me all my affairs and do not leave me to myself, even for the blink of an eye.
and
A'oothu bikalimaatil-laahit-taammaati min ghadhabihi wa 'iqaabihi, wa sharri 'ibaadihi, wa min mamazaatish-shayaateeni wa 'an yahdhuroon.
and remember the ayahs:
[94:4] We exalted you to an honorable position.
[94:5] With pain there is gain.
[94:6] Indeed, with pain there is gain.
[94:7] Whenever possible you shall strive.
[94:8] Seeking only your Lord.
May Allah cure you inshAllah.
2006-12-09 08:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by **PuRe** 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be silent most of the time and give short answers if ppl talk to you. Hopefully, some time soon they will notice that you are depressed and ask you what's wrong with you, then tell them what are your personal problems that you are having with each one. Hope that helps.
2006-12-09 07:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by they're savages 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm hoping you hit upon a manner out of the maze you're in. in case your mom and father are religions themselves, whether they only pay lipservice, you're able to attempt telling a clergyman this. They pay attention as properly as therapists, and that that they had be waiting to help your subject too. superb needs, Chris
2016-12-18 10:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your name Henna. Just go with the flow, and hopefully your future will be bright. I think everyone's will. We'll definitely get to see some amazing things in our lifetime.
2006-12-09 07:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Atlas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could call a crisis line. They guarantee confidential, anonymous and free peer counselling. They won't tell you what to do, but they can help you through whatever your facing.
There should be listings in your phonebook.
2006-12-09 07:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋