2006-12-09 07:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by Warrior Guardian 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all for your great answers! Each of you all had different and unique perspectives on the question. Moreover, you also gave me a lot to think about and ponder now. Because I wasn't asking the questions about a romantic interest of mine. More importantly, I was asking about some of my personal friends and family in my life. That is exactly why I asked what I asked. I'll be deciding as to what precise action to take soon enough....=) Thank you all, you've been very, very helpful to me and may you all have a great weekend! =)
2006-12-09 07:36:17 · update #1
What are the clear signs that I am or YOU are? How sick are you of being sick? How tired are you of being tired of the struggles. How fed up are you with spending more of your life and energy trying to figure out how to fix it? How truthful are you about the fact that you cannot fix any one? How long are you willing to put up with someone who is poison to your soul. When you say enough and mean it...that is a clear sign that you are ready. Resolution. Are you ready to move on from toxic relationships in your life? If you are not there yet, you are closer than you have ever been to making a mature and healthy decision for your good.
May the FORCE be with you!!!
2006-12-09 07:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by wingsovgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clear indicators are that you recognize a toxic person when you see them and more importantly, you don't blow past the warning lights.
You see, actions speak louder than words. The signs you've moved forward are that your own self-destructive behavior patterns are broken and you approach things differently. We view the world through the prism of our belief system, change that and we see the world and people differently. Sounds like you've at least acknowledged that your belief system was messed up. You're on your way at least.
Unfortunately, you cannot be sure that you've changed in a lasting way until you've come across a toxic relationship and had the strength to resist it and protect yourself by walking away.
I knew I was doing better when I was able to say to a woman "listen, I know your situation sucks, but it isn't my fault and it's not my problem". It was liberating, knowing I could whip my rescuer personality and not succumb to another spirit crushing, needy, and self-destructive woman. Really, the battle is in our own hearts and minds, not theirs....
2006-12-09 07:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1- Questioning the toxic relationships.
#2- Catergorizing your relationships as "TOXIC"
2006-12-09 07:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Reese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk around with a bottle of Vodka and a straw, time to move on...
2006-12-09 07:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that when you stop looking forward to having that person come home from wherever!
2006-12-09 07:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mark F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you realize the relationship is toxic??....time to move on!
2006-12-09 07:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so not sure but there you go!!!!!
2006-12-09 07:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by brandy n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋