My girlfriend broke up with me for two weeks so she could sleep with one of her old friends, once the dude left, she emailed me and said that she missed me and was stupid for breaking up with me. she knew he was only gonna be in town for two weeks.
2006-12-09 06:54:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is a form of cheating. I'm sure she doesn't see it that way since she broke up with you first, but she still intended to sleep with him when she broke up with you and was hoping you'd take her back when he left. I hate to say to just give up on the relationship because everyone makes mistakes, and its up to you to know if you can forgive. Do you think she'll do it again? Do you love her enough to move past this? Maybe a break is in order to give you both time to think about it. Leave the lines of communication open and see where it goes.
2006-12-09 07:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Hillaryforpresident 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she does not "love" or "care" anything about you or else she would not have risked the relationship. So every time this other "fool" comes into town she's gonna break up with you to sleep with him?? That's how diseases get spread, first of all. 2ND she is stupid and you are a dumb a s s if you get back with her! P.S. I don't think it's cheating if you are on a break!
2006-12-09 06:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love her or if you still want to be with her even if its just for love making, take her back. Why not? Did you do anything during those two weeks? Whether you did or not, its not like she was pure and innocent when you met her. So if you still want her, take her back. You are not thinking of marriage are you? Then you should think about it.
2006-12-09 07:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by ditto06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is screwed up on so many levels. move on a be glad you know what kind of person you were with. she's right she is stupid and sometimes being stupid and selfish has consequences like losing a nice guy who cared enough to consider taking her back.
2006-12-09 07:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Last of four brothers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it isn't cheating but it might as well be because it was just as wrong to do. Get rid of that girl she knew what she was doing and she dogged you. Find a girl that will respect you.
2006-12-09 06:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not consider that cheating cause she was not with you when she did that! The thing is, if I were you I would not take her back! If she did it once then she will do it again for sure!
2006-12-09 07:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jenNy has a lot of experience in that area. Maybe he had something to give her that you do not. Probably not a good idea to pursue this one any further.
2006-12-09 06:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is concidering you as the back burner. She wants someone else, but will keep you until she gets someone else. You are too good for that. Look up and feel special. There is someone special just for you...
2006-12-09 07:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by mizzgrizz01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to that skank..Move on you sound way too cool to put up with this treatment and who know's what little dirty thing's she may have picked up..Respect Yourself if you get back with her who says she is not going to do it again..:)
2006-12-09 06:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had this planned out! Yes, shes "cheating", I guess... But if she's done it once, you can bet she'll at LEAST try it again. Let it go.
2006-12-09 06:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋