ok, ever since we started talking, we call each other almost everyday and talk for about 2-3 hours!!! I really like him but he has a girlfriend..he's escorting me to my dance..as friends...but i like him..what should i do?!!!
2006-12-09 06:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by torn_rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you mean by if he breaks up with his girl, i'll have alot of problems?!!
2006-12-09 06:56:28 · update #1
wow im surprised that his gf hasn't said anything...
dont be the one to break them up... but if he truly likes you, he will be with you.
or you can make it clear to him and ask if he likes you or not because you dont wanna be the 3rd party.
2006-12-09 06:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is scorting you to your dance, he's not afraid to let his girlfriend know that he likes you, even if he won't admit to her directly. There's a chance he might want to get something started with you. What better way than asking him, tell him that you understand he has a girlfriend, but what is the real reason why he is there with you at your dance? He'll probably tell you straight out if he wants something more than just your friendship.
Oh, and if he makes a move on you with other people around, he's definitely saying goodbye to the gf.
2006-12-09 14:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to him about it could just ruin the relationship. Is it serious with the other girl? If so then keeping quiet might be the best option. I have told someone before and it didnt work out like I expected, she didnt speak to me for 2 years....yeesh!
I would say that maybe while dancing with him (close like), whisper to him that you wished you had a guy like him. Check his reaction, if it doesnt scare him or if he doesnt say anything progress with it.
tell him its been a while since you felt this comfortable i a guys arms...etc!
Although could it be that you see how happy and caring he is in his relationship and want that to? So you project feelings and your images of happiness onto him?
If so then ignore what I suggested above and leave things progress as they intended.
2006-12-09 14:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Neil M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does his girlfriend feel about him calling you everyday? If he wants to keep seeing this other girl then don't you interfere with their relationship cause let me tell from experience it really hurts the girlfriend. If he looks at you like that then suggest to him to break up with the other one before you and him go there with one another. That is fare and respectful the the other girl.
2006-12-09 14:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP NOW! BEFORE YOU GET HURT. AS LONG AS HE HAS SOME ONE, YOU WILL BE A BACK UP. EVEN IF HE LEAVES HER HE WILL FIND ANOTHER "FRIEND" WHEN YOU GET BORING. SOME MEN ARE NEVER SATISFIED. IF HE IS JUST A FRIEND REALLY, THEN YOU SHOULD MEET THE ONE HE IS WITH. IF NOT THEN ITS NOT FAIR TO HER. YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW. SO IF FOR SOME REASON YOU DON'T END UP WITH HIM AND YOU FIND SOME ONE NEW, JUST KNOW THAT ONE DAY SOME PRETTY GIRL WILL GO OUT WITH YOUR MAN BEHIND YOUR BACK. BE CAREFUL GIRL. GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-09 14:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by L roze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being the girl on the side then keep doing what you're doing. I wouldn't try to steal his @ss away from her. If he ditches her for you, what makes you think he won't do the same to you later down the road?
2006-12-09 14:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMgsh, same thing with me. Make him like you. If your going to a dance or parrty with him, dance with him and make him fall for you. It worked for me! We have been going out for 3 months!
2006-12-09 14:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by mansoureh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have got the same problem but like a girl has a BF...and he really annoys me...
2006-12-09 14:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u more then he likes his girlfriend but watch out cuz if he breaks up with his girlfriend for u then youll have major problems
2006-12-09 14:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and tell him your feelings. Maybe he will choose you over his gf. If things don't work out get over it and find someone else.
2006-12-09 14:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋