my parents don't want me to marry him. should i listen to me heart and marry him or listen to my parents
2006-12-09 06:43:56 · 13 answers · asked by simran s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you are eighteen, you can legally marry him. But wait a while. I mean, you're eighteen. Are you going to marry a 32 year old man? You're so young, are you planning to go to college, have a career? So many people who marry their high school sweethearts have gotten divorced because they realize that they were too young to marry, and hadn't seen the whole world, so didn't know that they didn't really love the person.
The age difference is less of an issue for me than your young age--although it is a bit creepy. I mean, think about it. When you're twenty six, he'll be forty. When he's sixty, you'll be only forty two.
2006-12-09 06:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Briar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's 32,then I assume your 18. Maybe your parents don't think your ready for marriage,let alone someone who is 14 years older than you. If so,then they should give you a reason "Why not?". First,be attentive and listen to what they have to say. Talk to your boyfriend about it,then YOU will be able to make your own decision. (Note) You did'nt mention how long have you been in the relationship?. This will play a major role in getting married. (Good Luck to both of you!)
2006-12-09 14:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents r always protective. Even if he is a good guy, they want the best 4 u, so they r kinda scared that u can make a wrong choice. But they will always feel like this abt any guy, so all u have to do is to make sure that u made a right choice. And if u r really right, than listen to ur heart only.
2006-12-09 14:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should respect your decision since and treat you like the adult you are. Don't rush things in your relationship, though. My guess is you haven't been going out much, but if it's his idea to get married, that proves that he's a good guy who loves you and doesn't want to just get some from a younger girl. Talk to your parents about this. Ask them to trust you, to give you the opportunity to get in a serious relationship. They might just be afraid they're going to lose you and in a bit of denial on the fact that you're a woman now and will be living life on your own sooner than they would've expected. Good luck to you all.
2006-12-09 14:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that makes you 18+- ?
Why do you want to marry at all? You got your money invested yet?
I think you should work on the family being friends first.
He is in heaven to have such a vamp for a mate (partner).
You may meet a 20yo that plays volleyball and has six-packs, biceps, pecks and gluts, snow-boards and scubas, and falls on his face in your presents.
14 years > > lets see at 60 you'll be 46? he checks out the newest walkers or Rascals and you have you eye on a ALS bikini (???)
You sure it is that (love thing) or feline itch?
2006-12-09 15:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming my math is right, you're 18, meaning you and he have had a "relationship" when you were 17 and he 31.
He's a perv and a scumbag. Listen to your parents on this one. If he was such a great catch, women his own age would be chasing him. Any man who is in his 30's and chasing teens has problems.
Your heart is misleading you. Damnable lies!
2006-12-09 14:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he just wana rip u off he dont like u at all . how old are u again 14? 14 year older 14 year younger? listent to ur parent OLD GUY are baddddddddd
2006-12-09 14:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by simple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait so ur 14 and goin to marry a 32 year old? woa i agree with ur parents
2006-12-09 14:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by lo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
listen to your parents. Your whole life is ahead of you and this
is your time to set up your career path & have fun. He is not
the only guy on this earth, there is plenty of dating to be done!
2006-12-09 14:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some older guys use younger women, be careful i was a victim of this, but if he truly loves you and he wants to maary you then go with your heart age is nothing but a number. but when he gets old and wrinkly and you are still young and perky you are going to wish you found something younger.LOL!
2006-12-09 14:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋