2006-12-09 06:43:46 · 8 answers · asked by jessem_is_cute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know you've probably heard this before but, time. it takes time.
2006-12-09 06:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by inluvwithb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend that you couldn't care less. This really works. Tell yourself over and over "What a loser! Who cares?" And keep telling yourself over and over all the things you didn't like about him. This is also known as "Fake it till you make it." Where you act as if it doesn't bother you, until it really doesn't. There are two ways to get from point A to point B. You can cry and feel all bad about yourself and eventually get over it. (because you WILL eventually) Or you can act now like who cares? and move on. Just speed up the process. Get busy. Make dates with friends. Go shopping. Go out. These things will increase the chances of meeting someone else too.
2006-12-09 06:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting dumped sucks. Make sure you understand it's his loss, not yours. Give yourself some time to get over him. You'll find someone else. In the meantime, hang out with friends or find something else to do to occupy your time so your not sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-12-09 06:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still into him because you are only thinking of the good things about him and the relationship. Write down all the negative things about your ex and the way he treated you, hang it up in your room or just look it over everday. It worked for me..good luck
2006-12-09 06:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over someone. Do something to get him off your mind. Hang out with your friends or family. Do something that you and him wouldn't do so that way you don't think about him.
2006-12-09 06:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just get over it. I started playing guitar. So, you're boyfriend just dumped you? That makes him just your friend, then.
2006-12-09 06:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of yourself in the arms of a man you trust as a friend, maybe hangout with him. sooner or later you'll be over it.
2006-12-09 06:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by SongWriter16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try something new
LIKE KArate
2006-12-09 06:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by akuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋