i really like this girl and i think she liked me but she noticed that i was a pushover and and did what ever people said. she looked really unimpressed
2006-12-09 06:41:39 · 18 answers · asked by Greg G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not a mind reader. No one is a mind reader. You are projecting your own insecurities on to her and assuming she is "looking down on you".
You are looking down on yourself and YOU don't think you're good enough. You have to start telling yourself that you are good enough for YOU and life. If this girl is worth it, then you will be together. If she isn't, then you won't.
Never give someone else power over you. You are the only person in your mind as is, she is the only person in her mind.
Like yourself and others will like you. That may sound trite but it is the truth.
Tell yourself that you love yourself and that you are loveable and the right person - maybe even someone a lot grander than this girl - will come in to your life.
Good luck.
2006-12-09 06:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well iam a girl and if i saw that id be a bit unimpressed too, but maybe try and show her that you are sooo much stronger than that...if she likes you enough she will give you a chance..if thats how you are, then try and figure out if she can like you for who u are and dont try to impress a girl who, though u can prolly get, expects a perfect man...not one single man or women will ever be perfect, love is when you can see that., then your love will be perfect in your eyes....good luck!
2006-12-09 06:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a sign that you need to stop being a pushover....
she may never see you as a impressive guy anymore (since first impressions do matter a lot), but girls later on will see the new you.
so good luck and forget her. she's see the difference.
2006-12-09 06:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to address this situation for self before the girl. But it is difficult to respect someone and they don't respect themselves. You have to know your self worth. That doesn't include allowing someone to push u around. Why r u doing that? It sounds like you need to start with u and then work on getting someones attention.
2006-12-09 06:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to impress a girl that looks down on any one?
If you still do just be your self.
2006-12-09 06:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by dippydon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even waste your time? Plenty of girls out there to choose from unless this is your sister or cousin and then you have a serious problem.
Run, run as fast as you can. You can't catch me because I'm the Gingerbread Man!!
2006-12-09 06:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No garantees in life my friend.
Want a chance to impress her? Sadly, not be so desperate to impress her so much.
Why does she think you are a push over? Mabye you should see why somebody might think that. Might be some behavior you need to change in order to define yourself.
2006-12-09 06:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be yourself and not let anyone influence you. if you're a pushover, just try to have some 'self esteem' and do what you think is right and best for every1
2006-12-09 06:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, plenty of fish in the sea. Plus if somebody tries you, spray them with mace and bust them upside their head with a brick.
2006-12-09 06:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by masterd900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself and prove her wrong. No girl likes a push-over.
2006-12-09 06:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋