i somehow become waayy too attached to any guy i like and that's y i've been too afraid to like anyone anymore. i don't know it's just whenever i like someone i can never stop talking to them n like i prolly call too much n they prolly just think i'm too available or something. i've done this with three guys that i've liked already n i wanna change my habits but its just soo hard. idk wat to do about my love life anymore its just so hopeless.
2006-12-09 06:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by his one n only <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I as a guy had same problem
My secret, when you feel you are clinging to much, restrain yourself. People grow more find if you affections are not so easily obtained. Actually force yourself to call less, or whatever.
Spend time AWAY from the boy friend. Join a club, or find activities that are separate from him. Scheduale these even if you have to force it on yourself.
It's ok to be somewhat attached but you got to have life outside the relationship too. Find yourself more and you will find you have more to share with the lucky guy you dating.
Or find a guy with simular personality to you. The problem with that is neither of you may end up doing anything else and life could go a bit downhil.
2006-12-09 06:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realise that you have self worth and that any guy would be lucky to date you. Dont become too attached (because 8/10 guys only want one thing anyway). I find a good thing to do is to delete their number from your cell or wherever and arrange to meet them online. That way you avoid the ringing, also maybe busy yourself with a hobby and this will take the temptation out of your way!!!!!!!1
Good luck hunni!!!!!!!!
2006-12-09 06:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Neil M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First have faith in your self it's ok to fall in love with someone once or twice you just get too attach that's all you want to find Mr. Right too quick, just try to get to know them before you think you like them
2006-12-09 06:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~Martha~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way and it sucks some how I mess every thing up. Just keep trying until u meet someone good luck
2006-12-09 06:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give ur heart so easy go slow and build a relationship, dont rush into sex, dont be available ever time they call , let it ring, dont chase them. take it day by day.. trust me... i went thru 3 girls that did this,, they went to fast scared me off. ive been thru what u are going thru and yes it hurts like hell and you dont know if you can be with anyone else.. so then i met this girl, she was awesome i worried about loosing her. it was hard to hold back my feelings i did and you know what. it worked, and its great.. just go slow and earn their trust and if its meant to be it will be like magic. now stop worring and get out there and do this.. go slowwwwwwwwwwww
2006-12-09 06:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to cut off immediately those high feelings since you have tasted it. But, but, the earlier you stopped relishing it, the better. Addiction of it is deadly!!
2006-12-09 06:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by kaju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a little too much too time or, you want alot of commitment in a relationship.
2006-12-09 06:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you need to find a guy that's just as clingy as you are
2006-12-09 06:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try playing a little harder to get. if u get too attached, just try to avoid them a little.
2006-12-09 06:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun....dont let any get to you....
2006-12-09 06:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋