hey guys: i didn't intend on having a casual relationship until it dawned on me that that's what it was. i really like this man with all my heart, but realise that all he ever wants me to do is come to his house and have sex with him! he has never taken me out any place and even has the nerve to flirt with me at work! i did tell him that all he wants is sex and he said 'NO, that's not all he wants." and he keeps asking if i'm ready for him? the truth is i'm sick and tired of waiting for him to develop feelings for me, so i'm gonna end it! how should i tell him that i don't want casual sex anymore? serious answers only.. help??
2006-12-09 05:59:16 · 8 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words. Yours and his. Just stop having sex with him. Treat him like you want to be treated. If he does not respond in kind, listen to his actions rather than his words.
2006-12-09 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't want anything to do with him anymore for personal reasons. Of course, you should have never had casual sex with him to begin with and should never have casual sex with anyone for that matter. Sex is and will be for you something uneventful even when you are married but you don't realize that now. You have cheapened the one thing that is intimate between two people who love each other. Sex is something to be cherished and kept only for that special someone. I feel for you and one day you will find someone who is a gentleman and will love him with all your heart but when he finds that you have cheapened that intimacy that he holds so dear he will not marry you. Trust me.
2006-12-09 06:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to make this decision easily. If you want more, and he's not willing tell him it's over! Now if the sex is good and you can handle being "friends that f uck" then go for it. Just remember what it is your signing up for!
2006-12-09 06:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell what youve tol us.tell him that u are not going to let him use you.and tell him that you dont want to be with him anymore because he only wants u for sex and tell him that you have deep feelings for him but hell never feel that way about you.and then just tell him that hes gonna have to find someone else that he can have sex with because you feel used.anyway i hope that helped!good luck!i wish u the best!! :)
2006-12-09 06:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you love someone that treats you that way? just dump him. do not make yourself available to him anymore. tell him that you're worth more than just a bang.
good luck.
2006-12-09 06:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by mikey19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are looking for somebody you can commit to and they can commit back and he doesnt want that so you need to find somebody else
2006-12-09 06:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it
When God closes one door a better one opens .
2006-12-09 06:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Time@ Time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. just be staight forward with him. and then avoid him for a while.
2006-12-09 06:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋