I met a guy 2 months ago – we knew each other before through mutual friends but never communicated directly. We started dating – there is 100% chemistry but we understand the importance of the emotional part and try to build trust by discussing feelings and issues – we talk a lot. We’re boy/girlfriend – honestly, I didn’t push for it – the conversation happened naturally.We’re special to each other. The catch is he’s just got divorced. Single for half a year. I’ve been divorced for 2 years (I’m 27 yo), so it’s not about the fact of divorce – it’s about the timing. I know everybody needs a rebound & while they’re rebounding, they don’t realize that. I’m not the first woman after his wife – he’s been dating before me but still. Does our relationship have a chance to last? I can't ask him if I'm a rebound - he is honest with me but wouldn't know. I’m scared ‘cause getting very emotionally involved. Ending this would be very sad –feels like I met somebody really special – but...
2006-12-09 05:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All Ican tell you is that my husband's divorce became legal just after we started dating(Iwas 17, he 24) and we have now been married for 11 yrs-been 2gether 12. Any relationship has the opportunity to work if you are willing to work for it. One worth having isn't always easy. As long as it is healthy and no violence. Don't risk losing it over what ifs-it could turn out to be something wonderful like mine!
2006-12-09 06:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by tc381mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you give it some time.. two months is nothing! enjoy each other's company, and friendship.. if you still feel this way after 6 months, then gradually let go. a relationship shouldnt feel like a vacation, you go on vacation for a couple days, then it's back to reality. if after a while you truley feel that it's going to be back to reality because nothing will come of it, then dump him. you have to do what's best for you! :)
2006-12-09 06:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going through a similar situation... i'm divorced, but the man i'm seeing has a baby with another woman! i've decided i'm gonna leave him cuz i figure i may end up getting hurt! trust your instincts! if you feel he may hurt you.. leave now!
2006-12-09 06:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by get outta here howdy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can stay with him just take it slow and always talk things over. Good luck
2006-12-09 06:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are so honest with each other then sit down and tell him how you feel.
2006-12-09 06:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋