she says she doesnt want to lose me and i dont want to lose her, but it seems we fight more now. i dont want to fight with her and she doesnt either. We been together for a year and a month and we really love each other, but dont know why we fight. we fight for like 2 minutes then its ok, then the next day it happens again. What should i do?
2006-12-09 05:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, and have gone through exactly what you are describing. We would fight almost everyday about nothing and they would last for a matter of two seconds. I hated fighting, so we decided the reason we were fighting was because we had been around each other way too much. So we took a day or two to hang out with our friends, and then we would hang out with each other. It made things a lot better. If you guys give yourself some "alone time", then the tension wont be so high. Hope this helped!
2006-12-09 05:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to find out the reason you are fighting. Think about how the fight starts. Really think about what has been said that starts the fight in the first place. Once you realize this then it will be easier to change what you say or do. This way you can avoid the fight in the future. Always communicate with each other even when you don't feel like it because it is the only way to understand each other and know each other's feelings. It is important to be empathetic with each other and support each other in everything you do and care about one another. Don't let the sun go down on your anger and don't ever let a fight be the end of a conversation. Love one another always and cherish each other and let each other know it. Life is too short to ruin a good relationship.
2006-12-09 13:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Are the fights over small miserable things? After they happen just block them out of your head. I have also found that a little more time apart usually helps me and the bf. We live together and are college students with the same schedule. So being together so much really gets annoying and time away is needed.
2006-12-09 13:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are suffocating each other,give yourselves a break,keep a distance sometimes,go out with friends,do seperate activities etc.don't talk every day,chat everday,too much of each other is sometimes annoying.give youirselves a chance to miss each other.fighting is normal tho if sometimes,but if you are always fighting,try to figure out,who started the fight,and what is the reason?if only one of you is doing it all the time,perhaps you should talk about it.....
2006-12-09 13:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why that happens...but it does happen....my hubby and I fight too....but we can't live without eachother....and we fight about the silliest things.
2006-12-09 13:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say fighting and bickering is a sign of love.
But I dont believe that. xD
2006-12-09 13:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out the source of your fighting and try to resolve it.
2006-12-09 13:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?? GROW UP!! IF YOU WERE REALLY IN LOVE, YOU WOULDN'T BE FIGHTING, EVER. PEOPLE IN LOVE, DISAGREE, THEY DON'T FIGHT.
2006-12-09 13:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by nanann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pick your battles. the little ones, don't worry about. but the big arguements, solve.
2006-12-09 13:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems that fighters are always lovers
2006-12-09 13:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by memolino2007@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋