There are these two guys who everyday come by my locker, and feel me up. I tell them to stop but they don't. My friend has seen it and says no one will believe it. Is this molestation?? Will it progress and become worse?? I already told them no when they asked me out, and then they started.
My friend says that one day after practice when I am alone they will rape me. Is she right??
2006-12-09 05:44:03 · 23 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will they eventually stop??
2006-12-09 05:45:21 · update #1
Will it eventually lead to rape like my friend said??
2006-12-09 05:47:15 · update #2
TELL SOMEONE!!! like a teacher or your school cop(if you have one),teh principal yeah if you let then touch you they will think its okay and that you cant defend your self and eventulally will rape you!! TELL SOMEONE!!!
2006-12-09 05:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by =] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk to PARENTS ?(those people that brought you into this world and are to take care of you until you are of legal age to go out on your own.) How do you just stand there and let someone fondle you and NOT say anything? You didn't slap the shyt outta this kid or kick someone in the nutts or ANYTHING?Do you like this "attention" you're getting or what? I'm not sure why you wouldn't tell anyone or at least try and defend yourself. You said you told them to stop, but this has been happening EVERYDAY (your own words) so I guess it's kinda obvious that they are NOT listening to you!! So as a person that will NOT defend herself and allows herself to be treated in such a manner, they probably could/would rape you. You wouldn't tell anyone anyway and your friend has you convinced that no one will believe you, so yea, it's more than likely that it will happen just the way your friend predicted. You need to tell your parents, the police need to be brought into this, as well as school administrators. How does a school offer a learning enviorment that let's this kind of behavior go unnoticed? If I were your parents, I would start a lawsuit against the school and I would press charges of sexual assault against these kids. Maybe your parents would've done the same if they would have known what the hell was going on to begin with.
2006-12-09 06:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend is that? No one will believe it??? Your friend is a moron and if they cared about you they would go with you to tell someone. The next time those boys touch you, scream at the top of your lungs. Which makes you more uncomfortable, being felt up or screaming so loud you will make everyone around you wet themselves? I guarantee someone will pay attention to you then. We go quietly?
-BTW- Guys like this prey on weak girls. I'm not sure how many conversations you've had with your dad but he should be teaching you to be smarter than this. You already know you should tell someone, anyone! Sexual deviance always gets worse when left unpunished. They will eventually rape you and it's not like TV so pull your head out and DO SOMETHING!!!!
2006-12-09 06:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by BrutalBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any studies, but I was very promiscuous when I was younger and was never molested or otherwise abused as a child. I had low self esteem and felt that sex was a substitute for affection. Also, I know a lot of women who were raised without a father figure who look for a dad in their lovers. A lot of different reasons are out there and I do not think that by watching porn or seeing strippers is supporting child molesters. However, it may lower your wife's self esteem and we all know where that leads!
2016-05-22 23:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can and probably will if you don't tell someone. Screw being a tattler; tell the names and NOW! They're doing something horribly bad that can escalate into something worse. Use your friend as a witness.
If they do it on a regular basis, get two or three people to hide somewhere near your locker where they can see it happen; then the whole GROUP goes to report the incident and there is no question of whether or not it happened.
2006-12-09 05:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Gia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET A TEACHER OR COUNCLER KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON AND THAT YOU NEED HELP. LET THEM KNOW TIME OF DAY THE DO THIS TO YOU AND HAVE THEM NEAR-BY BUT OUT OF SIGHT SO WHEN THEY DO IT. THEY WILL BE CAUGHT IN THE ACT. THAT WAY THEY CANT SAY THAT YOU ARE JUST MAKING IT UP. IF YOU TURN THEM IN AND ALL THE DO IS GET A SLAP ON THE WRIST AND A DONT DO IT AGAIN IT COULD GET WORSE. AND YOUR FRIEND IS RIGHT THEY ARE ALREADY RAPEING YOU IF YOU TILD THEM NO. NO MEANS NO. KNOW MATTER WHAT. YOU REALLY NEED TO GET IN TOUCHE WITH SOMEONE AT SCHOOL TO HELP YOU. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-09 09:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all this is happening, then probably. Go to the principal or get a restraining order or BOth!! Tell someone! don't just sit there and take it. Do something. This is molestation and harassment.
2006-12-09 05:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by moonygurl77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You soo need to go the police! Sometimes teachers don't respond. Teachers suck. They just want to work and retire. If you have one of them camera phone with a recorder... you should set them up so you have prove they are feeling you up and make sure it works. then go to the police and show them.. They will come haul them dirty boys away. You know if it's happening to you... it's happening to another girl. Stop the cycle!
2006-12-09 05:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is molestation. Tell a teacher or your parents about it. Don't let them keep doing it, it will only get worse.
2006-12-09 05:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by casew2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long will you be stupid before you report to the counselors.
When did you forget it is against the law.
Your friend may be right but without reporting it will continue.
It is a freebe, and may signal ,it is OK.
Quit playing games.
2006-12-09 05:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋