omg, help me, this is horrible?

Question

so i blew my ex-boyfried and i told 2 people, this blabber-mouth max, and my ex's best friend john. so i didnt think tht max was gonna tell anyone, but he did. and my ex wasn't going to tell anyone. so when he found out tht i told those people he just went along w/ it. so i told my friends tht my ex is telling people tht i blew him, and it never happened because if i did tell them the truth they wouldn't be my friends anymore. so my friend was talking to my ex yesterday and she was saying tht she doesn't trust him because of all the lies tht he told about me, so my friend still belives me that hes spreading rumors and he now knows what im telling my friends..........what should i do? should i tell my friends the truth, and not be their friend anymore, or go up to my ex and tell him the truth, becaue i still really like him and always have, i just said all that stuff about him to keep my frineds, or something else, i messed up soooooo bad

Answer 1

First, you need to know that this was obviously a learning expirence. You shouldn't tell people what you do with your sexual life. It's kind of tacky...And also, no one can keep those kind of things secret. Two-you need to apologize to your friends and sit them down and tell them the reason why you had to lie to them. If they are your real friends they will understand. Three- you need to get your priorities straight with your boyfriend. If he dosen't respect you enough to value your privacy he dosen't deserve you. Remember- the mistake can be fixed. It's not the end of the world. Take a breather and own up to it and everything will work out.

Answer 2

so what you gave him a blow, don't deny it... then brag about how good you are if you really did it. Your friends will still think that you are a slut anyway. Your first mistake was to tell blabber mouth Max, since you knew he was a blabber mouth you risked the chance for everyone to find out and then your ex finding out. Whatever happens you will have to chuck this one up as a foul in the game of love and relationships.

Answer 3

try chatting with the instructors of the training you're failing. See if this is plausible to get commerce assignments or some thing to make up the credit for the artwork you ignored. many of the time instructors are prepared to do such issues as that if the coed is besides. If all else fails, smash down and tell your mom and father. even with the actual shown truth that you could get grounded, only positioned forth an more advantageous attempt to get more advantageous suited grades interior the subsequent marking era.

Answer 4

Just talk to your friends if they are real friend they will undearstand now all you have to do is try to tell you ex boyfriend that you were mad when you blew hime off

Answer 5

i don't get it?? why would you lose your friends over something like that?

you need to learn how to keep your mouth shut! aka : "don't kiss and tell". what you do sexually is YOUR business and no one else. if you do feel the need to tell people then at least be comfortable with the fact you did it. if you want to hide it then don't talk about it.

Answer 6

If your boyfriend is someone you really care about as you said then always be truthful to him and yourself. We do not hurt the ones we love.

Answer 7

You should keep your mouth closed and all things out of it. YOu are in big trouble now and need to fess up.

Answer 8

Sweehearth, can you tell me you problem in a sentence or two??
I lost you in the second sentence.

Answer 9

just blow then all then there will be no secret.