im very gentle as a person, but never get a woman and i am apparentely good looking, but shy. women play hard to get with me but not others, and my friend whos female will sleep with many other men but not me.
2006-12-09 03:41:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woman might think im more of a man if i hit them
2006-12-09 03:41:45 · update #1
No hitting is wrong. they will like you more for not, but maybe if you got a little more out going and less shy they would take more notice.
2006-12-09 03:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy hits me he's instantly taken from the potential date list, to my sh!t list. However if it's a playful punch he's still not date quality but I might consider him a friend. Regardless, don't hit the girl, most likely she'll take take it the wrong way and you'll come off looking like a jack a$$. My advice to you is to just stay who you are, those women who are playing hard to get are seeing if what you want is a relationship or just sex. A woman who sleeps with a lot of men is usually insecure and looks anywhere that she can for her version of love, don't automatically think that since your female friend won't sleep with you that you're less of a man, most likely she care's for you much more than she care's for the men that she sleeps with.
2006-12-09 11:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by mandy_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna tell u what I tell my preschoolers.... dont hit use ur words.
plus if u think going from nice guy to an abuser will get u more females ur way wrong. If some girl stays even when u hit her that means she has low self confidence and u dont want a girl like that.
Just stay the way u are.... or try playing hard to get urself
2006-12-09 11:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by S.A.Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you never raise your hand to a women period. Maybe you should change your look a little and get a little more of a attitude. Women go for the bad boys or boys they don't know because it is exciting. Be a little more spontaneous and mysterious thing may change then. Stop hanging out with chicks so much you will never get laid if they consider you a friend.
2006-12-09 11:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't hit them! I'm sorry for your dilemma, some women don't appreciate a guy like you but I assure you there will be a woman who will! It might take awhile but never stop being who you are. Plus your 'male area' will be in a lot of pain if you hit a woman because that's where we like to hit back.
2006-12-09 11:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover4life15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Women won't think more of you if you hit them.. they'll be scared of you. You'll hurt them not just physically but emotionally as well. You won't have her love, but her fear. Is that what you want?? Different women are attracted to different things, and there are bound to be women out there who'll be attracted to you just as you are. No need to make drastic changes (especially such disgusting ones). If you don't feel "manly" enough, then I suggest getting yourself involved in more "guy" activities... sports, or poker, or geez, even take up karate. There's plenty of ways to boost your masculinity and self confidence without having to become an a$$hole.
2006-12-09 11:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ever hit a woman. the reason why your friend wont sleep with you is because your FRIENDS and friends dont sleep with each other or problems usually arise. if your a shy guy try to open up a little but you really want to find a woman who likes you for you not who you try to be.
2006-12-09 11:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never hit women it wrong and i know what u r going though expect for the about the who sleeps around a lot i was shy once but i suck it up after the most embarrassing thing happen to me no one knew about it expect my two friends the girl i like and one of her friends see i like this girl but i was to shy to ask her out she knew i like her but i guess since i acted like a punk she wouldn't go out with me but is how i got reject before i could go to her and ask her out she came to me and told me no really nicly but and no one knows about it but it was embarrassing to and than i said i would never hold back my feelings but i would still payation to what they like whoes their friends i be cool and relax it sould work out and it much easier when u r an adult because when u meet a girl u don't know and she reject than u don't have to feel embarrass all u have to is get back on your feet. hope it works out and remember hitting girls or women is a very bad thing u will not get anywhere. please don't hit women it bad very my mom thaugt me that see i am a guy and i made it work and i didn't have to hit a single girl or women and if it work for me than it will work for u thank u
2006-12-09 12:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man, dont hit her! lol thats crazy. When your with a girl you just gotta make her feel like your like a body guard kind of. Its such a turn on when your guy can hold you and you feel like nothing can hurt you. (bein all wrapped up in his huge arms and chest)
2006-12-09 11:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah just a warning if you hit a girl you better either wear a cup, or protect your balls cause 9 times out of 10 thats where your gonna get hit back
2006-12-09 11:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋