She loves me, i love her, we`re now together for about a month, and i want to take it physically........
2006-12-09 03:37:05 · 22 answers · asked by The Stiffmeister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is the actual hurry. There is so much more in making the relationship work without the sex. Think about it. A month is not really a very long time to get to know each other. Sure I know that guys like it quick but don't try to convince her, allow her to make up her own mind up when she is ready you will know.
Maybe its a wise thing to wait a little longer. At the same time ensure that you take all precautions as you want safe sex and also protection against pregnancy.
Allow her to know her own mind and when she is ready she will.
It may be frustrating for you but give her a chance it may be all well worth it in the long run.
Waiting is a good quality that you really care.
take good care of YOU but also take good care of HER
2006-12-09 03:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
First is she a virgin? Maybe a month isn't enough time for her. If you love her then let her have the time she needs before making it physical with you. I know you want to express yourself physically with her, but if she feels forced into it the outcome might not be the best in the end and you may end up with no girlfriend or a girlfriend who resents you. Try to wait it out. Good Luck.
2006-12-09 11:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Issym 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A month? That's not a long time, especially if this is her first time having sex. Does she even trust you yet? I'd want to know someone a lot longer than a month before I let myself get naked with them.
Don't push her - that's a good way to strain your relationship or lead to a break-up. Let her know you're interested, but don't ask for it or complain about it. Be romantic and give her compliments.
Above all, be willing to wait for her to come around. There's no magic button that lets you have sex. It's a mutual thing, and it's a scary thing for many girls. She's probably waiting for the right time with the right guy - to be that right guy, you need to prove worthy of her trust, and that means not pushing her.
2006-12-09 11:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
How can you "convince" her?? Take a tip from a lawyer type, if you have to "convince" her, back off. Its either mutual, or not at all. Besides, trust me, the best sex is when equally desired from both...not where one has to be "talked into it."
2006-12-09 11:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If shes not ready, dont pressure her. Thats the best way to NOT get laid. If you want to woo her, get a hotel room, do up the flowers and candles...or do it the old fashioned way and get her drunk. But be prepared, cuz if she doesnt want to, she probably wont. Then you have to ask yourself if you love her or sex more. Good luck, buddy.
2006-12-09 11:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by peas4362 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey don't convince her to do it! When and if she is ready, she will have sex with you. Yes, you may both love each other but if she is not ready to take that next step, don't force her to do it, you need to respect her and her opinion.
2006-12-09 11:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well its only been a month, maybe she needs more time to decide if shes ready to take the next step.... just give her time and don't pressure her because if you keep asking you may run her off!
2006-12-09 12:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by KasaiB 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
it is important to take a kiss test , test it by tuching her hairs and commenting on them , if she is ok with this , u can kiss her.
Take her to a date at ur home or some place where she is not noticed ,, in 2 or 3 dates u will be able to have sex with her after u tell her that u can have safe sex.
2006-12-09 11:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by chetan g 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You dont convice her...if you cant respect she wants to wait i mean a month is hardly long enough to have sex but we live in a day and age where all you have to say is hello and they are ready to have sex i mean respect that she wants to wait because once you have sex it changes everything because you are tapping into emotions now....thats where it gets serious......trust me....you might not think so but once you cross that line thats it....Women are more emotional than man.......watch out make sure you are ready and have you asked her why she dont want to have sex. Please take it slow...Dont live by this socitey please wait...GOOD LUCK!!!!!! Respect her
2006-12-09 11:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 3 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well 30 days , let her decide what she wants respect her . 30 more days and you'll prob be in love with another and she will still have her respect, back off and if in need jack off. If you really love her you want push.
2006-12-09 11:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by martha g 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋