they never seem interested when i talk to them
2006-12-09 03:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i live in uk
2006-12-09 03:37:53 · update #1
All a halfway decent looking female has to do to get a guy is show up. They just have to be where the guys are and no other effort from them is required.
ANY GUY who isn't famous has got to have some game. Looks actually work against guys to a certain point. A total zero/loser with game is going to get women all day long, we have all seen it. A guy with looks, brains, interests, great job, who is also shy is going to spend many lonely nights, until somehow the planets line up and he gets lucky.
Only by watching a successful player at work can us regular guys realize how much work it takes. My player buddy flirts with every female he comes in contact with, from age 2 to 90, that is just the way he interacts with females.
Like me you probably try to just be real when you meet an attractive girl. Problem is, it is really hard for them to react to that, it doesn't tell them that you are interested. The player is flattering them, flirting, keeping the conversation very light and fun and the girl knows the guy is interested, they don't care that they come off as jerks because breaking the ice is more important.
Anyhow, there you have it.
2006-12-09 03:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your approach - or your personality. You might come across as nervous/desperate, or as arrogant/egotistical. Maybe you act pushy, or you only talk about yourself with them. You may also be looking at the wrong girls or in the wrong place - not every girl is looking for a guy. Some are trying to work, some have a guy already, some are just not turned on by every handsome guy they meet.
Why not get a hobby? That will give you something to talk about with girls, not to mention help you meet them. Plus, it will make you happier, which is always a good thing when meeting girls.
2006-12-09 11:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you cocky? Do you act like a stuck up rich boy? Just because youre handsome and rich doesn't mean you're gonna get any girl (although it is a bonus). Just be yourself. Don't tell them you are rich or act like you know "oh im handsome LOVE ME". Dont let people know you think you are handsome but dont tell themn you think youre ugly or anything.
2006-12-09 11:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Its like they are intimated by us or at least that is what my teenage daughter says. Be patient it will get better. You don't live in North Carolina do you?
2006-12-09 11:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you don't have a cool haircut. you need one of those and what would help is hire an escort to hang out with. that would be a super way to attract women to you, they think you're already taken.
2006-12-09 11:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because you don't talk about something thay like. you need to find out something that they are interested in.
2006-12-09 11:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by littlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb it's the way you talk to them.
2006-12-09 11:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by vanessac2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am right here waiting for you honey! Come and get me !
2006-12-09 11:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money cant buy everything. you have to be nice, polite, sweet, charming, and a gentleman
2006-12-09 11:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks and money don't matter it's the personality that counts.
2006-12-09 11:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by shelbee c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋