i like this guy at shcool, and i think he likes me too. but one of my guy friends doesnt think i should like any one but white people! im not gonna listen to him, bu i would like to know why people think that way. cuz he wont tell me. btw, this wasnt my guyfriends first racial comment towards me. he told me that i was acting black, and that i needed to stop. i hang out with people because they love me, and i love them, red, yellow, black OR white, why the hell does it matter?
2006-12-09 03:21:33 · 22 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter! If you like they guy, you should ask him out!
2006-12-09 03:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Paige 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why is anyone a racists? Sexist? Bigot? and so on...?
I don't know really, but I suspect the major culprits to be: ignorance, fear, and a superiority complex that white Americans, in particular, are immersed in.
I cannot speak for other countries; as I was reprimanded by an answerer that I did not speak to an international audience, and should.
You need not dignify your 'friend's' racially heated words with a conversation nor should you allow him to bother you. Get a New friend. Much smarter!
Follow your heart and be happy. That's the important thing.
2006-12-09 03:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets first touch on "acting black"....this is a huge thing for white people to watch another white person do. You do not need to speak the talk as on the street to cross over into other areas of life. Be yourself and stop and think if your being told you are doing this, you are doing it. Now onto the dating black white green yellow or red......the color of the skin does not make the human being. The human is on the inside you know the part of all of us that bleeds the same. Base no relationship on color or religion only on the true inner being.
2006-12-09 03:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thinking the reality that is all that's left. good looking white women pass with white person adult males. those fat uneducated prepare wrecks that are with black person adult males ought to prefer to be with a white guy yet an unattractive white guy has opportunities, which incorporate an Asian woman. The offspring of a white guy and an Asian woman must be properly-known in the two society , they could have not have been given any discernible hazards distinctive than actually length if it grew to grow to be dazzling right into a male, (smaller than a white guy yet bigger than an Asian guy). If the teenager grew to grow to be into woman they in many situations seem very fairly.
2016-10-18 00:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be what you are white.it dont matter who you date or like. you cant be something youre not. but take a good look at the muary povich show must young black men have 3 kids before they get out of high school so just be carefull
2006-12-09 03:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by wofford1257 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing a great thing, i believe the same thing, it's just that other people believe different things, i know it sux when you are the good one in the situation. . . doesn't it? i agree with you, as long as you know that this person loves you and wouldn't ever hurt you , you are making the ,right decision, just because your friend may be rasist, doesn't mean that you shouldn't still be friends. . . . he is one of those people that think differently and that is okay, because everyone IS different !!!!
2006-12-09 03:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know go for the one you love because you might never find anyone like that and there is absolute nothing wrong with that but like color or gangs or anything should get in the way of love
2006-12-09 03:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by silvertonflames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. Ignore that person making racist comments and live your life with principle...it's not always easy and you will get grief from others, but it's worth it. I like your attitude.
God bless.
2006-12-09 03:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It reallly doesnt, but if you dont have anything that you are planning on doing to stop racism then i mean all you can do is get used to it. b/c people are still gettin used to it. they just are
2006-12-09 04:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you are right, if you love someone it doesn't matter if he is black or white. don't listen to anyone but your heart. And I wish everythink will be ok.
2006-12-09 03:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋