This guy that I really like is going to ask me out on tuesday, and I am really excited. But one problem: I haven't ever had a boyfriend before. Pretty sad for a 15 year old, I know. But what does it take to have a lasting relationship?
2006-12-09 03:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by oddostrich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust him and don't show jealousy.
2006-12-09 03:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going out on one date doesn't make it a relationship, nor does it make you boyfriend-girlfriend. focus on one date at a time.. get to know him. ask him questions about his hobbies and interests, as well as his attitudes and philosophies on life..
try to treat it as if you are just friends, at least for a while.. don't put too much pressure on the entire thought of romance..
relationships take time to develop, and have to be build on trust and communication..
don't be in a rush to do anything physical or sexual.. that should be the last thing that happens. only when the relationship is strong and well-developed.
2006-12-09 03:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot of things for a lasting relationship. Trust is one of them, caring, understanding, being considerate. Its a big package. There isn't just any one answer. Think about it, you will come up with some things on your own.
2006-12-09 03:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and honesty is a major key to keep a relationship. You have to be honest in everything you do. Dont lie to him and let him find out your lieing about something because that will break his trust in you and if your mate doesnt trust you then there is no need to stay in a relationship!
2006-12-09 03:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, honesty, trust, not to over bearing. know when to give your partner the space he needs. being there for him and give him the support he needs. Never lie, cheat. good luck. and don't feel bad about never having a boyfriend before, we all have to start somewhere in our lives.
2006-12-09 03:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loads of understanding.
Tons of patience.
And lasting commitment.
Plus a little bit of forgiveness and love.
2006-12-09 03:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lasting relationship can be if you have mutule respect and care one about another, if you both enjoy to be together.
2006-12-09 03:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by dana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication,understanding and lots of patience.
2006-12-09 03:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lala15 gave the perfect answer!
2006-12-09 03:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow and be yourself. it don't take much to go out and have fun. don't go in thinking that this is the one and you are going to be together forever. just go have fun
2006-12-09 03:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it not sad... your first exeprience should be memorable... to have alasting relationship be friends, have an open communication, compromise and most of all just be yourself
2006-12-09 03:11:48 · answer #11 · answered by lala15 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋