I had a friend, i really liked him but as soon as i found out that he loved me i tried to forget him. I really didnt like him that way. so everytime we were talking after that, i said sth to hurt him but it seemed that he'd never get upset. so i treated him so baaad. last week i was thinking about him so i called him 'n i told him that i dont want this relationship. but this time he hurt me so bad. he made me feel like a *****. he told me i never loved you!!!! so im really angry at myself!! because i let him hurt me and make me feel so disgusted. he was a good friend and i ruined our frienship and also my character. i feel like i hate him but at the same time i dont wanna let him go. so what should i do!?! take revenge?! talk to him?! or just forget him?!?! we were friends for 3 years.
2006-12-09 02:47:37 · 15 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you guys r right
but i wrote him a letter and explained everything but it seemed he doesnt want to read it! so before that i told him i never want you to read my letter! i was so angry and maybe so selfish!
2006-12-09 03:14:30 · update #1
talk to him
2006-12-09 02:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by sn3w14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy would be hurt by what you did, lady. Instead of treating him badly (because you didn't like it), you could have been more honest with him at the beginning and treated his feelings for you squarely and more sympathetically. He was your friend, after all.
Since you hurt him in purpose, apologizing and talking with him would seem to be the best idea. Find a good opportunity to do that. If you do, be transparent of your expectations of your friendship with him. Hear him out, too. Things may not turn out the way they were exactly before, but if things would end between the two of you, at least it would happen nicely. Plus your conscience wouldn't be bothering you. If he's cool, then you'd still him as your friend. Be honest, but in a tactful manner. Good luck. ;-)
2006-12-09 03:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 00:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's really your friend then he will forgive you. when he said that he never loved you it broke his heart to tell you that he never loved you. All he wants is you to understand his feelings for you he doesn't want you to feel uncomfortable or anything like that. He is thinking about his feelings right now because he thinks that it's a mistake to just break up your friendship he still wants you and him to be friends if you don't want to go out with him what I'm trying to say is he doesn't want to hurt you to bad. when you treated him bad you broke/crushed his heart.
2006-12-09 03:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Teodoro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have been honest in the first place with him, none of this drama would have happened. How about,"Sorry ____, I just don't feel that way about you". You could have remained friends and not hurt him so much, grow up and get real with your friends. He's probably better off without you.
2006-12-09 02:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hony listening to ur story , ur the one thats mixed up . u seem depressed. if he was a good friend then he will come back as one and if he was ur lover he will come back for that .and if he was neither the u two were like two ships passing in the nite . call him tell him u want to go back to being friends and let him call u back . if he don't then it was not to be.
2006-12-09 03:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by himhum03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take revenge, sounds to me like he got revenge on you for being so rude. Grow up, I dont know what your problem is but good friends are hard to come by and you make the rest of us look real bad. I suggest you swallow your pride and tell him that you are an ****** and that he deserves a better friend than you.
2006-12-09 02:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by a h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friendship like yours shouldn't be broken that easily. If you feel like this you should talk to him, even if he doesn't want to hear from you, you should leave him a voice message or a letter or maybe invite him to have lunch/dinner with you( I suggest outdoors).
2006-12-09 02:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in life you will experience different things life this. It sometimes get easiler as you go along in your life. Next time you see him,talk to him about what has taken place between the two of you. You and he needs to get an understanding about where each of you satnd with each other. Life sometimes show you a different picture you just has to be wise and have the patience to understand the picture. you and he will be just fine once you two fine an understanding between the two of you.
2006-12-09 02:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Raynette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and settle it. tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels. that's the best in making sure everything goes as planned.
2006-12-09 02:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, if both of you are mad at each other for something, I would suggest just for you to remain friends.
2006-12-09 02:51:35 · answer #11 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋