I mean it doesnt have to be a handsome great looking boyfriend. I want a nice one with a great personality with alittle bit of looks. Have any tips?
2006-12-09 02:12:19 · 20 answers · asked by Rachel N 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't look in clubs...I met my husband through friends....his friend knew mine and the rest is history. Also college is a good place to meet ppl with your same interests....good luck!
2006-12-09 02:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by cereal_killer034 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st decide if you are searching for just a boyfriend or a boyfriend whom you can make your husband! If you opt for the 1st option don't waste your time going through this answer.
If your feelings are really genuine and you opt for the second option then go ahead-
1. keep your eyes and ears open and learn to judge between right
and wrong.
2. look out for a genuine person, though it would be bit difficult to
judge, but if you spend a little time doing this, you'll be blessed
forever.
2. be yourself and make yourself clear from the very beginning.
3. know ur choice-what u want exactly in that person.
4. and the question of attracting him towards yourself, he'll be
himself attracted if he's also interested in you and your love,
else why bother about someone who doesn't care about you.
follow your own instincts but let me tell you its very difficult in to days world to get a loving caring genuine boyfriend along with being good looking who has a good personality.
but nothing is impossible so best of luck..
2006-12-09 02:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out for it. Don't waste your time on anybody who has some jerk in them. I don't know how old you are - but there are nice guys out there. If you are not concerned about looks - that will help a lot. Are you religious at all - or Spiritual? If so - go to church. There are usually nice guys at church. OR - I think the very best thing to do is volunteer work. If you're doing volunteer work - you'll meet nice guys who are into that kind of thing. (I don't mean the REQUIRED type of "volunteer" work that kids in high school have to do these days). If you are a nice person yourself - and you stand your ground regarding a boyfriend needing to be NICE - you'll find one. Remember - hold out for it!
2006-12-09 02:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your high school age :
Join clubs, go to school dances and other functions.
Have a friend(s) introduce you to guys.
Adult age 18 and over.
Meet folks through friends, relatives.
Join an organization such as fire department or ambulance corp.
You can meet nice single guys in the super market, church, library or most anywhere.
I met my husband on an internet dating site! I dated for 4-5 yrs that way and met a lot of nice guys.
Always go for the personality and make sure they share core values as you and have some of the same interests. Good Luck
2006-12-09 02:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't undermine what you are looking for starters. Be patient and be willing to wait for the right guy to come along. Don't be afraid to give the guy that starts hanging around you and your friends a chance.
I started hanging around a different group of friends and among those people i met 15-20 girls none of which i wanted anything to do with (reputations) then i met my fiance` been together almost 3 years! Good luck. Just remember to be patient you will know when you find him, don't just settle on the next best thing.
2006-12-09 02:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Speaking as a guy with alittle bit of looks and a lot of personality, my fiancee's personality was what attracted me to her. Show guys that are the best looking that they still have a shot in the dating pool, you'll be surprised at how many nice guys float to the top.
2006-12-09 02:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by packman_132004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a a great guy with some nice muscles and an awsome personality, a guy that would never use you or like you just for your looks. A sweet guy who will sew things for you etc. than aks me out, JK! haha Im in the most wonderful relationship with someone I will be with forever! I love her so much.
Just, whenever you see these qualities in soemoen give them a posotive reaciton and it will become well known you like these qualities nd then what your looking for may emurge.
2006-12-09 02:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Male16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is always a viable option. You seem to know what your looking for in a guy. But it is really up to you to meet men that meet your standards. It's not like you can buy a guy at the grocery store. I can't stress enough though how love really does find you when you least expect it.
2006-12-09 03:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by benn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say you need to go to Church to find a good mate. If you go to some worldly Date Finder on the net no doubt he well be ungodly and it well end in a Divorce. The looks of a person has not one bit too do with his inside!
2006-12-09 02:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet more males with like interests and ambitions in life. Join organizations, other activities, get involved in sports if that is your thing, sign up for evening classes, anything that really interests you. I am sure you will be fighting them off!
2006-12-09 02:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mukunda M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋