My husband is thinking of re-joining the army as active duty he was reserve before. I stand behind whatever decision he makes i am just not sure what to expect. He still has to go to meps but they said his ship date would be jan 9. I am just nervous any advice will be helpfull.
Thanks to all who have served!
2006-12-09 01:41:00 · 8 answers · asked by kanga38_ 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
My husband is active duty Army and he's in Iraq right now on his 2nd tour. What kind of advice are you seeking? The life is hard, lots of bullshit to deal with. They work long hours, they're under appreciated but just make sure your relationship is STRONG. You have to be his rock and hold him up. It gets lonely because they're gone all the time for extra training, going to the field or overseas.
More than likely he'll be put in a unit that will be going to Iraq soon, and that' s hard to deal with. My husband has been gone 2 months already and I miss him like crazy. He calls me like twice a week and we're able to communicate on a regular basis through instant messenger.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-09 15:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by dallas_chick 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by zabel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how it is for the active Army. My husband is in the National Guard. He won't find out an exact ship date until he goes down to MEPS and is sworn in. At least that's the way the Guard worked. My husband is at Basic and what has kept me sane is writing him as often as I can and keeping myself busy while he's gone. Cleaning, errands, Christmas shopping etc...I have also found a group online at www.military.com They have a section for military spouses from all branches. They are more than willing to help when needed and listen when you get frustrated with something. You can message me if you need someone to talk to.
2006-12-09 01:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as his orders don't say Iraq then you're ok. But seriously, I have a husband who is in the Army as well. We are about to head over to Europe very soon but I'm not worried. It's such an amazing time and when he'sactive think of all the places you'll get to go with him. You'll have a blast! Just get involved with the ACS, the unit's spouse support groups, MWR and you'll be fine.
2006-12-09 01:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by babycakes2877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru the exact same thing right now. He just returned from Iraq in June as National Guard and he is now in Arizona re training for a new MOS-full time active duty. It is hard. Its a whole diffrent ballgame when you are active duty. Know what email me or IM me and we can talk. I think that will work out better.
2006-12-10 23:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 96 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a wife of a u.s. army soldier, but I am a friend to one.And I say when your husband deploys to Iraq or where ever he is going, you can always keep in touch with him. By emails, letters, sending him gifts, pictures, and/or anything that would make him feel proud of himself, and what he is doing to help others. Also, on the other hand you will feel great of what you are doing, it would also make you feel secure that he is perfectly fine.
"Good Luck" I wish your husband " the best of luck, and that god will always be there for him"
From,
Maryam A.
2006-12-09 01:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard, but I wouldn't change it for anything. My husband is currently in Iraq, has been since January, and will be home hopefully by the 1st of March. But I am so proud of him and everything he is doing for our country. We are stationed in Germany and have been for the past 3 years, the places you will go and see you will remember for a lifetime!!
2006-12-12 04:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a military wife, but I wanted to send my prayers and gratitude to you and your family. Your husband is brave to serve, and you are brave to support him in his service. My father-in-law was career Navy, as was my brother-in-law who recently retired, and my nephew recently returned from Iraq. While I don't share your particular experiences, I still sympathize with the difficult life of a military spouse. God Bless your family, and the USA.
2006-12-09 01:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋