i'm 35, 6ft tall, slim, been told i'm stunning, never been married, never had kids, and not found mr right. Do i move to another town?
2006-12-09 00:44:44 · 24 answers · asked by Tivvy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Understanding the concept "soulmate". Yahooooo... things really are made in heaven!
Yes, every single individual living on Mother Earth has a partner in hiding... a soul mate that would practically match hundred percent with one! This has been a saying by people falling in love now and always. But this is also the truth. God made the destiny of mankind like that.
Suppose I am a boy born at number 43.045230345 (on the scale of hundred) amongst the billions of people living on Mother Earth. Then in all eventualities there would be many girls born at number 43. Whether I get to love and marry the girl of my choice is purely dependent upon my destiny which is a controversial subject (one can always take control of ones destiny if we truly desire so)!
Now, how do I find all girls at number 43...? This is where we falter... the numbering system of God being hidden from mankind... it becomes difficult to find the soul mate matching our choice and results in divorces, the divorce rate being abnormally high.
In the present materialistic trend one weighs the other from his finances, the bank balance, looks and alike. In the domain of God if we really want to search our soul mate... it may be hidden in the ugly frog for God may have cast a spell on it and unable to recognize one we marry the wrong girl! This is the irony of fate of most people the world over.
Those who can hear the sweet small voice coming from their heart... the voice of our soul (atman in Hinduism) such truthful people sometimes are able to recognize their soul mate. And it is then we learn that a Mira Bai has been born. Mira Bai was a faithful follower and lover of Lord Krishna even though Lord Krishna was married and had a wife.
The love of Mira Bai for Lord Krishna was unparalleled. It was much above the physical inhibitions expressed nowadays. For Mira Bai... sex had no role to play in the love she had for Lord Krishna. This is what pure love is all about! More on soul mate here- http://www.godrealized.org/truce_with_my_inner_self.html
2006-12-11 01:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you had asked this question before I got married.
Where do you live that you think you should move?? Chances are the reason lies in the minds of the men you've encountered. And there is nothing to help that problem. But there are ways for even a stunningly beautiful woman to be undesirable.
Here's what I suggest and it covers all the possibilities I can think of:
1. Groom immaculately
2. Smile
3. Be friendly and approachable
4. Help someone EVERY day
5. Honor your parents
6. Study or work harder than ever
7. Spend an hour a day at the library
8. Spend an hour a day at the gym
9. Get to the mall or grocery often
10. Join a volunteer group
11. Take group dance lessons
12. Eat out a popular restaurant
13. Pay close attention to your posture - never let your upper body droop over; if you must, bend from the knees.
In most cases, some of these can be choices you make over staying at home with the cat, or eating at home alone.
Good Luck
2006-12-09 08:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That used to be my question EXACTLY......actually myself and my best friend. Of course, we live in the mountains where there are 10 single women for every 1 single man.........LOL. And we won't go into details about how those single men still live with their mothers........LOL. Anyway, I heard Dr. Larry Dobson give a talk on singleness this week and I am finally at peace with being single, which is my prayer for all singles during this difficult time of year. He said that singleness is actually a gift, just as a mate is a gift. I guess it's just how one chooses to look at their circumstances. Trust me, I would rather be married or at least have a wonderful man in my life, but sometimes we singles simply need to appreciate where we are right now and be thankful when those circumstances change. I know it's not what you want to hear and I'm sorry for that. But I would hate to see you make the same mistakes so many of us single girls make.
Act like you don't care if you are single, even if you do. Guys pick up on that sort of thing. Don't be on the lookout.....I made that mistake and it never works out. We attract the wrong type of men that way. I thought I found "the one"......TWICE........evil grin. Gave them both back their rings and here I am.
My heart and prayers sincerely go out to you. Tough it out through the holidays and pray for the man God has in His plan for you. But don't relocate.
2006-12-09 09:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by RealtorGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean.
I have stopped thinking that i will find some one. I feel I am destined to be alone.
So I have come to terms with it and altho i would love to meet a nice man, I can now enjoy a type of freedom instead of always being on the look out.
I do things I enjoy instead!
2006-12-09 09:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another towns isnt gonna change anything... and there is not Mr right. same for guys Ms. Right doesnt exist. you can keep looking for him in your fantacies but in reality people are people. if you get to know a real guy that you like and let him get to know you, then you might find him to be better than mr right that you were expecting.
2006-12-09 08:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6ft tall?! maybe join a volleyball or basketball league and meet some tall confident men.
i think you need to place yourself in the right envirnoment. i dont think love will come if you dont find the right environment for it to happen.
2006-12-09 08:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww, i know this isnt what you want to here but no matter where you go, yo will find mr. right when the time is right. even if you move away or stay put somehow you adn your future man will meet, you just need to be patient. i know its hard, but it will happen for you
2006-12-09 08:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.pleantyoffish.com its a completely free dating website Thats where I found my Mr Right we get married next year... good luck sweetie
2006-12-09 08:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Berrylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find the town where they keep our soul mates, tell me where it is. lol no just keep looking he will pop up some day. until then relax and don't try so hard.
2006-12-09 08:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After death, the soul without a body cannot find mates on earth , bodies find mates.....
2006-12-09 08:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋