my boyfriend of 7 years has developed a cocaine habit and has been using for about 5 months We had sex last night and he started to do things very differently, different positions that we have not done before and using poppers to stimulate sexual feeling also saying things to me during sex that he has never said before. his hard on came and went several times but i put this down to the coke. He has told me that some of his friends visit prostitutes in Soho but has always maintained that he would never do this. When I asked about having an affair or going with a prostitute he becomes really angry and says its over and that I am stupid. He comes home really late every night. Last night he said he fell asleep on the train and ended up in Bedfordshire he said he paid out £65 to get home in a cab I cheked British Rail and the trains run all night. He does not pay for his cocaine as his mate is a dealer but he never has any money left from his wages
2006-12-09 00:17:24 · 18 answers · asked by celiachic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need a break from this guy hun i know you love him but if he loves you he will come back to you when he has sorted himself out,the thing is drugs change a person so much that they don't recognise themselves let alone anyone else,you've caught him out on a lie ask him to tell you the truth or your leaving if he has nothing to worry about he wont get mad he will tell you what happened i hope things work out 7yrs is a long time to be with someone,you could ask him to get some help and say to him that your there for him but he needs to be honest with you.i do hope you are OK be strong and don't let him take advantage of you.
2006-12-09 00:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a COCAINE HABIT??? Why aren't you RUNNING in the opposite direction? He may very well be having an affair, but if he is addicted to cocaine the affair is actually a lesser problem. Addicts will steal to cover their costs. Get him some help, or get out of the relationship... FAST!!!
2006-12-09 08:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is having an affair with a different woman each time he goes down....its OK for him to tell you when he is straight that he would never do that but he probably has...if i were you id get out before that one time when he is in the wrong frame of mind and he attacks you or what someone did to me rapes you...plus it is only a matter of time before he will try to get you to do the drugs or lose his job and force you to buy his coke he knows that he could do this because you love him....its hard to leave but just get out and leave him to destroy himself..if he loves you he will try to clear up get shot of the bad influences in his life and make himself into a real man for you....
2006-12-09 08:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Buster 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cocaine is a sex drug it can make you go to extremes...it has you doing different sexual things other than the norm....why are you still with him?...he's a drug addict...either get him some help or dump him, soon enough he will be squandering all your money on this shyte to feed his habit...it is an expensive habit...maybe he's spending his money on the old slappers....i would seriously consider on going single girl...i smell distruction....
2006-12-09 08:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing hanging around with a cocaine addict? Save your own life now. Things may actually get worse than you bargained for.
2006-12-09 08:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Run girl; as fast as you can. Put some miles between you and this apology for a man before he drags you down with him.
You are worth more than that!!!!
2006-12-09 08:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Christine H 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He gets free cocaine? Allllright!
Seriously though... listen up, walk away.
Today.
You deserve better than some junkie, and he's definitely cheating on you so take your pride and walk away.
2006-12-09 09:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My darling, dump him now!!! DO NOT put up with this sort of behaviour. Believe me, there is someone special out there for you. You need someone who will respect love and even worship you. You don't have that sort of person right now.
2006-12-09 09:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by kitten_brunette_gemini 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer yourself.Try hard to walk away before he drags you down with him.Take care and good luck
2006-12-09 10:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating...more importantly why are you still with him?...he is on drugs which is a disaster for you and him...he will drag you down with him....GET OUT NOW FOR YOUR OWN SAKE....can't believe he is telling you it is over
2006-12-09 08:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋