Usually i'm the one giving the OBVIOUS answers, but now i'm in an odd predicament myself...
Theres this girl... ive known her since school and we were in different years, but we were friends through other people, now in an odd twist of fate, we re-met the other, and since then weve talked heaps, msn and all, but we are friends...
She has had some past relationship trouble which she is still kinda dealing with. She is comfortable to talk to me about this ex guy, and another she was meant to see last night, but gave him the flick, i'm sure she likes me, she told me had a crush on me a few years back, but i cant help but feel she still does, but coz we were friends before, i dont want to ruin this...
here you have a typical answers question, i know, but when feelings grow and youre confused, sometimes its easier to ask u guys..... thanks in advance
2006-12-09 00:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask her out to dinner or something, so you can talk face to face and if you felt she was still attracted to you and you are to her, than make an attempt at asking her out on another date and just let nature take its course. If there are true feelings there, all will work itself out, and you have no worries. Just don't push yourself on her if she is not interested. Good Luck, from what you said I also think she is interested.
2006-12-09 00:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy to try and help you out. I think that in the case of friendship, since you have just recently reunited then hooking up with her won't be as bad as if you had been really close best friends for like 5 years or something like that.
If she is telling you that she is crushing on you, and clearly you have feelings for her then there can be no harm is telling her you could both give it a try.
Having to live with the what if's will be more difficult if you all try to conceal those feelings..and besides..how long do you think you could really both hang out before you cross the lines of friendship anyway.
I think that you two knowing the hardships of each others relationships that you discussed as friends can work in your favour because you will know what the other expects...
Truly go for it..love can be rewarding..I wish you the best of luck
2006-12-09 08:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by GreyRainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. It sounds like she is just too much drama to be worth it right now. I'd keep your options open. But if you're hellbent on trying to win her, then you should ask her out to dinner, and tell her how you feel.
2006-12-09 08:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I've said before to other people- Never date your friends. Unless you are sure you never want to be friends with them again, don't do it. She'll find someone else soon, encourage her to if you think she can handle it. Help her out finding someone, but don't make it yourself... those things don't usually work out.
2006-12-09 08:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you really like this girl. If this is the case, then you should do something about it, tell her, im sure you wont be disappointed, as you already feel she likes you.
2006-12-09 08:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out but take things slowly. Good luck!
2006-12-09 08:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her sort out her current problems first, seems she's looking for anyway out right, now take your time, been there done that.
2006-12-09 09:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to know something..sometimes you have to take a risk...
2006-12-09 08:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by kirsten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever your heart says
2006-12-09 08:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by alone l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋