Im dreaming for good looking granddaughter and sons...with the looks of my daughter's bf, I'm afraid it wont come true.
2006-12-08 23:47:55 · 32 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
sounds like she is young, so more than likely this is not the guy she will marry and have children with. besides aren't you more concerned about her happiness then whether or not her man is good looking enough? what is important is that he care for her, treat her with respect and make her feel like the happiest woman in the world. i think she would be hurt if you told her her man was ugly, she may already know he is no Adonis but if he makes her happy and she is willing to look past it, you should too.
2006-12-08 23:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by cami 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So he may not be prince charming to you, but she may think he is the hottest thing in the world. Grandbabies? Have you ever seen an ugly baby? I haven't. Besides, your daughters' genes will be in the mix also, so do not worry about that. And I am sure you would not love them any less if they were, as you say, not good looking. Shouldn't you be hoping to have healthy and happy grandchildren more than this absurd hope? To tell you the truth, that really is none of your business, you should be more concerned on how well he treats your daughter and what kind of Daddy he would be, not something as ridiculous as looks, geez lady!
2006-12-09 00:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude... you're an fool. imagine once you've a baby, if she's a lady, do you quite opt to work out her get manhandled by a few alluring ****** at the same time as she receives older? you're being one hundred% disrespectful to him. No ask your self he doesn't like you. it really is his daughter. His infant lady. at the same time as he sees you grope her, he's also seeing the baby lady he fed and bathed and hugged. there is no longer some thing incorrect with the way he's appearing. Shoot, if I were her dad and that i said you try this, i'd beat you down so puzzling you'd be eating foodstuff out of a straw for some thing else of your life. Get a clue. The honorable situation now may be apologizing to him in deepest. perchance you'll earn some factors decrease back that way, yet at present you've sort of screwed your self with him.
2016-11-25 00:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your daughter is a very mature, well adjusted young woman and has the ability to look past the outside and see a person for who they really are inside. Your daughter is the one going out with this guy not you and she obviously thinks this guy is special and treats her right. I think maybe you need to get a life and start a hobby or something and fulfil your own life instead of worrying about whether you will have supermodel grandkids or not. I think you need to watch the DVD Shallow Hal and really pay attention to the message behind it!!!!!!
2006-12-09 05:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe your daughter thinks he's the best looking guy in the world. Looks should be the least of your worries. As long as he loves her and is good to her, what should the looks matter? Would you rather her have someone abusive that's great looking? All children are beautiful as they are a gift from God!!!! I think you need a good strong dose of reality!
2006-12-09 01:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do, she will end up resentling you for being so shallow if you say anything. What would you rather have? You daughter dating an ugly guy that treats her like a queen or a good looking guy that beats her everynight and walks all over her? Anyways, the ugliest kids I've ever seen have come from 2 good looking parents.
2006-12-09 00:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by party_pam 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How horrible is that to say? You should be more concerned that your daughter had found someone she loves and concentrate if he treats her right or not. As for the looks of someone or the what your grandchild may look like is a matter of opinion. To me I think that the baby Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes had is not that cute of a baby and they have been voted gorgeous people. So, it shouldn't matter what the parents look like it's how much they love each other and how they treat one another. I hope that you didn't say this to your daughter? Good luck to you and I hope that you have a change of heart.
2006-12-09 00:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by ws_422 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That seems selfish, don't you think so? If your daughter really likes him, he treats you and her nicely, and they seem to have a good time together, what's the problem? You just want good - looking grandchildren, but there isn't a 100% chance they'll turn out like their father. And if you want to tell your daughter that her boyfriend isn't that cute, she'll never forgive you.
======================================================================
If you are between the ages of 10 to 14 visit my website:
www.advice-master.mysite.com
2006-12-09 04:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Advice Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks shouldnt be the issue here, you should be happy for her that she's happy with the guy she's with. Looks aren't everything. You should be happy that he doesn't abusive too her. Why are looks so important? Are you dating him or is it your daughter? To me you seem just a little bit rude to be judging him on his looks. You shouldn't do that. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder not just what a person looks like on the outside.
2006-12-09 04:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by kayren s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you know your grandchildren wont be good looking. Sometimes you get attractive parents with unattractive children. you're being pretty superficial. I would say that the most important thing would be that this guy loves your daughter and treats her well. And that maybe he would be a good father and husband to her one day. Would you prefer a good looking guy that was an asshole and treated her like crap? Think about it. She loves him for a reason.
2006-12-09 00:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋