ok why is it that whenever no one is checking you out no one is cheking you out? but once one guy starts talking to you its like other guys are suddenly interested in you too? whats up with that?
2006-12-08 22:48:47 · 11 answers · asked by Hill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone wants what they cant have. Guys turn everything into a competition.
2006-12-08 22:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its simple when a guy checks u out that means he likes u that means there are good points in u that is availible and most guys think alike so probably its kinda like a sausagefest and guys will get up on and try to get with u and well honestly u have charecteristics taht many guys like u could be nice careing good looking uhh iono some of that kind of sort u could be very daring even and adventerous u might be able to make a guy feel good about him self and give himself self confedence but in the end all guys are perverts jsut waht kind are they... whne ur single and people dont know it people dont try . thsi might be the thing guys from b4 that liked u thought u wernt single so they didint try but now they know that u are single so its again another sausage fest jsut lgnore the others . if theres a guy u like go for that one dont go for the rebound cuzz thats messed up so just let ur world gose on as it is like every other day and then when u have time and whne ur life is at its best thats a good time to look for the one u like =) so have fun and the questiong u ask will alwayse happen thers alwayse one guy that checks u out.
2006-12-09 06:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same with many things. You have fries, some one wants some, you dont have any & no one cares. Two kids play together & you pick up a toy & give it to one of them & the other wants it even though it was right there to start with. It's just human nature.
Kind of like you want what you cant have.
It's silly but true
2006-12-09 06:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by MrBret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the whole competition thing .... if no-one is checking you out ... then there must be something wrong with you and every guy will steer clear .... but if one guy is checking you out ... every other guy will think "hey ... I've got a better chance than him ... here I come ..." ... it's just how things are
It's more commonly known as male stupidity ...LOL
2006-12-09 06:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys were checking you out but do not have the balls to talk you. Once they see one guy not get rejected then it is open season on you.
2006-12-09 06:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.I have named them the dry seasonand the wet season. I think that when aguy checks you out there is a glow about you that attracts other guys. I have learnt to appreciate what season brings me by.I invest duting the boom season and use them during the dry season.
2006-12-09 06:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a competition.
2006-12-09 06:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As soon as one guy takes notice, the others try to see what attracted him to you, its a competion type of thing on a almost instinctive level.
2006-12-09 06:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Big Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Question
Because it is Power Trip for some men (proably)
2006-12-09 06:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you may think at a point it is not happening but it happens all the time, just stop trying to see and be natural and you will see
2006-12-09 06:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋