I like a guy who is really cute and nice to me....he shows to me that he likes me too.But i want to be sure cause i am in love with that guy and don't want to lose him...how should i tell how i feel about him and what is the right time?the last time i fell in love with a guy didn't go well and i don't want to be hurt again....
2006-12-08 22:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by ~CoNniE~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awww, Connie, just tell him how you feel, honey.
One of two things can happen. He can either say he loves you or he can say he doesn't and he was just being a good friend.
It's better that you get this over and done with, honey, because, later, it could hurt much more.
I'll pray that he loves you, too, OK?
Merry Christmas!!!!
2006-12-08 22:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. But I think only you will be able to know when it is right to take the risk of sharing your feelings. I would wait until the relationship has had a chance to mature. Saying I love you is not something to do lightly, as you have learned from your own experience. So don't rush. In fact, for some very young men it is scary for them so give it time. You will keep him only if it is meant to be.
2006-12-09 06:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. People expect everything right away these days. Get to know him as a friend, that way you'll like him as well as love him. Tell him how much you enjoy being with him and stuff like that, don't use the love word until he does first, men like to feel they're in charge. DON'T RUSH THINGS, YOU'LL SCARE HIM OFF. He'll respect you more if you go slow. (call me old fashioned if you like)
2006-12-09 06:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how long you've known him but question the reasons why you love him..... make sure you do and then just tell him.... straight up to his face.... if he doesn't love you back and you lose him your not really losing him cause you never had him in the first place. good luck
2006-12-09 06:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had dat problem too....... i was sure dat he liked me and i didn't tell him my feelings. That was 2months ago like.But now he doesn't talk with me even. it looks like he is angry with me.
So don't be late u'll lose ur love. Give him a letter telling ur feelings or anything... but don't delay. Good luck let me know what happens!!
2006-12-09 06:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to go through life and not be hurt every now and then.
How is this guy showing you he likes you? Are you saying, you 2 don't talk or what?
Isn't honesty the best policy?
2006-12-09 06:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he tells you how he feels, then tell him. Tread softly and slowly, and it will all fall into place.
2006-12-09 06:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my opinion is that you tell him. you don't know what he is going to say may be he like you too and is also shy to tell you or is afraid to loose you so go and tell him and be yourself. good luck and be brave!!!!:)
2006-12-09 06:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋